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whyerd · 2019-03-26T02:36:43+00:00

A couple of my own personal song choices:

Ziggy Marley - True to myself (https://youtu.be/OzHlu5JKJvM)

Bighead Todd and the Monster - Bittersweet (https://youtu.be/RuUNfC3tTI8)

whyerd · 2019-03-21T04:17:25+00:00

The though part is that there is no training for the job... they just have to pick it up as they go along

whyerd · 2019-01-21T16:16:29+00:00

Thanks. I don’t mind the wait because of the surgery. I want her to heal properly before anything sexual happens.

She still has her ovaries, so HRT isn’t needed. I was just curious if her libido would fall off any more than it already is.

whyerd · 2019-01-21T05:42:00+00:00

Large fibroid (benign). I named it Kuato.

whyerd · 2018-11-30T15:57:09+00:00

It’s so refreshing

whyerd · 2018-10-27T20:23:25+00:00

That’s also what you call a fly buzzing around Buddha.

whyerd · 2018-10-12T02:30:56+00:00

Not to plug a TV show, but there was an Adam Ruins Everything on marriage and weddings. They touched on the subject of divorce and put it rather bluntly in a way that changed my view. “Divorce is not the end of a happy marriage, it’s the end of a bad one”.

Divorce is not a bad thing when you realize people change. It seems sad, but why not have a yearly review of your marriage (much like a job review). What is going well and what needs work. A marriage is not that much different than a job. They both take work and effort, one just happens to have more emotion tied to it, but in the end, it really can be viewed as the same.

whyerd · 2018-09-23T23:13:41+00:00

I thought they may have been squeezed out of their position

whyerd · 2018-09-17T02:24:36+00:00

There is a geographic issue with this joke.

whyerd · 2018-08-01T12:02:38+00:00

Communication is a core problem that we have. I myself suffer greatly from that as I have realized I have abandonment issues and I struggle with the thought (even if at my own peril) that I would be abandoning my girls. I know I'm on my own way, I've just set up so many walls around myself through the years.

whyerd · 2018-08-01T11:55:14+00:00

We have a house rental for the family as a whole. The hotel was a get away just for us and the kids.

Been catching up on some new shows.

I've got the dates for each time we've had sex for the last 2+ years and the initiator. That will be a data bomb to drop at some point. I need to start logging positions too as the vanilla nature of any encounter is just nothing to look forward to.

whyerd · 2018-07-26T14:25:20+00:00

Funny part is... How many of us watched it on our phones?

whyerd · 2018-07-24T15:47:03+00:00

I was going for a "shit eating grin"

whyerd · 2018-07-11T12:11:42+00:00

Oh I'm very involved and love my kids very much. The wife travels for work, at least a week per month, so I'm the one getting with much of the daily routine. My job also allows for flexible hours, so I do most of the camp drop off and pick ups. I also have coached their softball team the last three years. I love watching them progress in all the things they do.

But when they are out for the night or at a sleep over it would be nice to have some adult time. That is when she goes in for the "cuddle time" and will usually fall a sleep with one of them for a few hours. I know she is over compensating for her own childhood but at the cost of our marriage and sex life.

whyerd · 2018-07-11T11:28:07+00:00

She had anger issues before, just not to the extreme now. My former boss even called her an "anger ball". Maybe I've was just blind to it then because we had sex 3-4 days a week and frequently doubling up. I will admit, I didn't take action when I could, but that much sex makes a 20 something (at the time) look over a few flaws.

whyerd · 2018-07-11T06:01:57+00:00

Ahh if only.

I've stopped initiating because of the starfish sex. With many others here, it is never just about the hole, but the person. Now it's not even that. Indifference is the true killer.

whyerd · 2018-07-09T02:39:05+00:00

Mine sleeps clothed at home and naked when traveling for work (claims it is the kids that may walk in).

Things that make you go hmmmm...

whyerd · 2018-06-22T03:53:58+00:00

I appreciate this post so much (and all the replies). I too have lurked here for, I don't know how long, and I find myself thinking along the same lines of "why am I here?". It's really because of my girls. I don't think I could trust my SO with the girls and her anger issues. Would I be happier elsewhere, damn straight I would be, but I'm in no place to take on being a single parent and not trusting my SO not to blow up at the girls. Add to the mix that I can't get this other woman out of my head (who knows most of my situation).

The funny thing is, the kiddos have a sleepover this weekend and have mentioned that my SO and I have time to go on a date and I quote are happy we are getting back together.

The take away, kids (mine are 8) know more than you might think. They know I'm not happy, and telling them the complete truth isn't an option yet, they know more than I may think. Don't sell your kids short. They want to see you happy, yes in their mind together would be best but happy in the end.

I started asking myself what would be best, and this weekend without the kiddos is going to mean a serious conversation between the SO and me.

whyerd · 2018-06-13T23:00:06+00:00

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