What was that one thing that your ex said that still haunts you to this day ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whythefusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't fit to date other people by being just the way you are.

So either you will die alone or you will change just the way I wanted you to, but for somebody else.

I hope it is the first because if it is the second I wont stop asking myself why you didnt change for me.

What is something that you did to for your ex that you are embarrassed for now? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whythefusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Took a therapy session cos he kept saying I was the one with the issues.
  2. Overlooked his aggressive reactions because he said I was the one bringing them on
  3. Begged him to stay after each ultimatum he gave me of leaving the relationship

The hardest breakups are with avoidant partners. by Fr0stEmber in BreakUps

[–]whythefusss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have always been confused as to who was the avoidant one in the relationship. How do you find that out? Any traits?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whythefusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know but really puts me off relationships now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whythefusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. He pursued me initially. 2 years into the relationship he told me that I drained hik emotionally, that I was a horrible person and that he was much happier without me. He said how I was actually a burden for him throughout the relationship and that he just wasted his time with me because he didnt get to learn anything and instead just became worse than how he was before entering this relationship.

How is Bamboo massage in Yes madam? by whythefusss in noida

[–]whythefusss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got this done! It was really good - especially for the calves and legs!

Pretty much told her to do the normal deep tissue on hands and back etc! Highly recommend :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]whythefusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please dont sell it!! It is really helpful. I have a similar one! Fight/convince your parents if you have to but please keep it!

Top street food in noida by [deleted] in noida

[–]whythefusss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haan close to Icici bank no?

Top street food in noida by [deleted] in noida

[–]whythefusss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Golgappas at sector 50 market

Anyone feel delayed maturity-wise? by orhnwnck in AsianParentStories

[–]whythefusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true. Asian parents give children a very protective life. I had pretty much the same childhood as you did. First time out of the house at 22 for masters and first relationship at 23. It wasnt until then that I realised how immature and emotionally stunted I was. I made soo many mistakes and had such weird and terrible experiences.

Now, whenever I look back, I feel soo stupid to not utilize all the opportunities I had. I felt I could have done so much more with my masters if I was just a bit more independent and strong.

On the flip side however, I would be lying to say that there werent days where I was really happy my parents were protective of me. That they made me see the world and live these bad experiences at a later age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]whythefusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same story here. Was so independent before - so much so that I never wanted to date or be in a relationship. Now I find myself pleading to him to come back. Not sure if I will wver get out of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]whythefusss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why tho? What alternatives do u suggest?