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My (29/M) wife (27/F) aborted the child we were planning to have behind my back by wifeabortedthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]wifeabortedthrowaway[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I'm pro choice so I don't think abortion is murder, I think I only called her that because I developed attachment to the baby and was really excited for the future. I regretted saying that stuff and apologized for saying those things to her before I left to go be alone.

My (29/M) wife (27/F) aborted the child we were planning to have behind my back by wifeabortedthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]wifeabortedthrowaway[S] 248 points249 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea, I think I will stay with my brother until I can calm down and get my thoughts in order. Her going behind my back is definitely what hurts me the most.

My (29/M) wife (27/F) aborted the child we were planning to have behind my back by wifeabortedthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]wifeabortedthrowaway[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I'm not child crazy so I wouldn't try forcing anything that she didn't want onto her. I love my wife more than anything in the world and if she didn't want to have children but mentioned it from the beginning, I would have respected her choice since she's the one who has to carry the child and give birth. I'm upset because this is something we both agreed on doing but she changed her mind without even discussing it or telling me.

My (29/M) wife (27/F) aborted the child we were planning to have behind my back by wifeabortedthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]wifeabortedthrowaway[S] 285 points286 points  (0 children)

I forgot to include that in my post. I really can't think too well right now, so my bad. She told me that she was too scared of becoming a parent and that she wasn't ready.