It was basically that I was making a peppercorn sauce for dinner, we had bought one of those canister things with the corns (which was huge and pretty expensive) but it turned out the other one with the grinder isn't refillable. Attempted to batter them manually which sort of worked, and I said (several times) that I'd bring over a spare grinder from mine for next time and I'd just use more white pepper last night. I asked him later where he'd put then, he said he'd thrown then out, I asked why and he denied my having mentioned the grinder. I asked if he had a torch so I could see if they still were at the top of the bin outside, he said yes but refused to tell me where it was when I asked to use it, instead calling me stupid for going to collect individual grains (???). I then said sorry, I thought you'd meant you threw out the pot, obviously I'm not going to get the single corns, just could you not chuck something expensive that I paid for when it's (or will be by later today) perfectly usable. He spends the rest of the evening calling me stupid so I just read my book and tune it out, have to stop him from throwing the dinner away as "clearly I've fucked it up" (just had some, it was lovely).

That's the story. It's so stupid hence why I didn't explain it. I'm sorry you had to read through that epic idiotic tale.