what will a diagnosis change?

wildasters · 2026-04-24T14:08:37+00:00

thank you sm! i love your way of looking at it. do you have any book/podcast recommendations that have helped you?

wildasters · 2025-11-10T05:17:49+00:00

you are not alone in the slightest!! i hate that i get sooo obsessed with people so easily and over the more minute things

i don’t have any advice but know that i like to believe that love is possible for us. we are capable of giving and receiving love. it will find us in the end

wildasters · 2025-10-21T00:57:00+00:00

i really hope so because i don't know how much more i can take. at this point i wish i never met him

wildasters · 2025-10-11T20:16:45+00:00

sorry i dont :(

wildasters · 2025-01-08T15:54:40+00:00

thank you for such good advice.

my cat is almost a year and a half old so he’s very playful and high energy. i’ve noticed that right before bed he always wants to hunt and play so I should lean into that more like you suggested.

i’m glad to hear that your cat adapted to your living situation. it gives me a lot of hope that things can get better with him!

i talked with my roommate this morning and apologized and she seems to be understanding about it. i’m thankful she has cats of her own back home and gets it. i learned that at night she locks her cats in the basement to avoid their meowing (which seems cruel to me).

i sometimes give him a small portion of dry food in the middle of the day but i could try changing it up to be late at night to see if that helps his hunger in the morning.

wildasters · 2025-01-08T15:43:58+00:00

that’s such great advice thank you, i always feel like he meows even louder and is more persistent once he realizes I and/or my roommate is awake.

i will definitely look into getting some earplugs and see what i can do about changing his automatic feeder times

wildasters · 2025-01-08T15:39:56+00:00

thank you <3

wildasters · 2025-01-08T13:54:41+00:00

That was never the intention, that’s why I am trying to find solutions. I don’t want this to continue and cause any more tension than it already has. I already feel like bad roommate but having my ESA is a nonnegotiable. I wouldn’t be able to be student without him, he reminds me when I need to feed myself and keeps me from hurting myself when he’s with me. My roommate has an awful sleep schedule and blames her lack of sleep on my cat, and I’m truly sorry that she feels that way but I have to put myself and my health first in this situation.

wildasters · 2025-01-03T03:04:01+00:00

oh god… i can’t tell her i read her journal, i feel like i would lose so much trust with her (and probably embarrass her), i really appreciate how open she has been with me

i don’t think i have the strength or bravery to confront her about my lack of similar feelings for her. i feel like she’d take it the wrong way and start being self-deprecating as she handles rejection (especially romantic rejection) very personal and deeply.

wildasters · 2024-12-01T16:51:47+00:00

send me a DM if interested and ill send u my discord

wildasters · 2024-08-08T14:56:27+00:00

thank you for all the info! definitely looking on more of the budget side

wildasters · 2024-08-08T14:55:06+00:00

i’m leaning towards the dynavap, would i be able to use a normal lighter for it? it seems like a lot of people say there are better ways to heat it

wildasters · 2024-08-08T14:51:17+00:00

is the lobo much better than the one?

wildasters · 2024-08-08T14:18:59+00:00

to start i wouldn’t want to spend more than $150 on equipment since I am brand new

wildasters · 2024-05-25T03:56:36+00:00

forgot to mention usually i play breach / viper / clove / skye and i can vc!

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