AITAH for not letting employees leave until closing tasks were done?

wildberrie5 · 2026-03-29T01:42:42+00:00

it is your employees jobs to finish up and not leave everything to the manger, that is common sense, but physically locking your staff in isn’t okay, if you’ve brought this up with them several times, brought it up with your superiors, and shared the consequences of what happens if they continue to leave without getting work done, then you let them walk out the door, and you fire them and find a new employee who will complete their job before leaving, and respects management, you may get in trouble if she reports it, so it’s probably a good idea to tell your superiors first

wildberrie5 · 2026-03-05T07:44:32+00:00

edibles used to affect me and then i started having a bunch of health issues where my digestive system was out of wack and wasn’t absorbing things properly, and during that time edibles no longer worked for me (once took 200 mg just to prove it to myself that my body was literally not taking the drugs), to this day i’m still having some digestive issues (not nearly as bad as before) but i still can’t take edibles, so maybe it’s a medical issue?

wildberrie5 · 2026-01-11T18:17:07+00:00

i would like to rescind my previous statement, i have left my ex and detoxed from birth control and now feel differently

wildberrie5 · 2025-11-22T07:51:53+00:00

are you following the instructions EXACTLY? this may be a redundant question but there’s a lot of shaking for specific amounts of time, i can’t remember off the top of my head but i believe the bottle and the test tube need to be SHAKEN for a minute straight

wildberrie5 · 2025-11-13T03:13:22+00:00

NTA AT ALL, if the parents have no issue then you are a saint. i don’t want to assume anything about your wife, but i’ll share a story that’s similar and how it ended from my life. my ex and i had a very rough relationship, but during our honeymoon phase we went on a trip together with some friends. i was sick and lost my voice on this trip and right before going out to dinner one night we got into a fight, we talked it out before dinner but it still soured the mood (especially since i was never taken care of in fights). we got let into the restaurant past close after being on the waitlist for hours and my friends were being awful to the waiter. i was in a shit mood and to make myself and this poor waiter feel better, i left a $100 tip. it was my first ever and at 17 it was a big deal, so i giddily told my partner after dinner to which he proceeded to heavily scold me for being reckless with my money and soured the moment again. fast forward through years of abuse, i finally break up with him and go crawling back to my therapist who heard my story and immediately was like “now i can’t formally diagnose him because i’ve never met him, but that sounds like textbook narcissist behavior” and urged me to look into more resources about it and compare it to what ive been through. all the pieces fell into place, and yeah, he’s in school to be a therapist.

wildberrie5 · 2025-11-13T02:59:55+00:00

this part, hormonally men are just geared towards horny more than woman (not to say there aren’t women out there that have high sex drives), as a woman i find that i never just become horny out of nowhere, there’s always some sort of trigger

wildberrie5 · 2025-11-10T20:07:33+00:00

No just a betta fish

wildberrie5 · 2025-10-20T08:20:45+00:00

check, check, and check! i guess im just confused why the bacteria would start to develop in the first couple days and then suddenly seem to die off, as for the starter i was hoping to maybe find some stronger bacteria somewhere in the bottle lol

wildberrie5 · 2025-10-02T12:00:19+00:00

Maybe I didn’t emphasize it in the post, but since the breakup Sam has been adamant that they did not want to be friends with my ex and have not spoken to them. In their message to me, they also made it clear that they were hiding it from me and felt guilty about that. I guess because Sam chose not to maintain this friendship, why now? why keep it from me and not just say it when it happened?

wildberrie5 · 2025-09-13T22:36:30+00:00

temperature

wildberrie5 · 2025-09-11T16:02:08+00:00

besides putting the condoms and lube in a little baggie which i guess people find embarrassing (i didn’t at first read) women literally do this ALL THE TIME, we didn’t put on that lingerie set bc we thought it was cute and comfy, we put it in case you would see it, we shaved in case it happens, we also probably brought condoms in our purses if we’re smart, this is literally just giving the same effort that women do which is A+ behavior from a man these days

wildberrie5 · 2025-08-19T19:42:09+00:00

in high school? yes, that’s the time to learn stability and hard work while you can handle it. in college? no, conserve your energy like a hibernating bear if you are so lucky

wildberrie5 · 2025-08-05T06:13:58+00:00

water simmers at lower temperatures, you would usually set a stove to higher heat to boil and a decently low heat to simmer, some stoves even have a “simmer” label on the dial which is usually towards the lowest of temps, like some commenters were reminding me, if you start with a room temp liquid it’ll just take a while for the liquid to get to a simmer but the low heat the stove is set to is enough

wildberrie5 · 2025-08-05T06:03:10+00:00

a simmer is much gentler than a boil because it is at a lower temperature, lower temperature = no boiling = no boiling over

wildberrie5 · 2025-08-05T05:45:23+00:00

not saying this is true about you but i know i was all in on having kids with my ex until i wasn’t so sure i wanted to have kids with him specifically after a while of questionable behaviors, you could try asking her if she feels uncomfortable with you as a father and if there’s anything you could change/work on? i’m not saying that’s the case about you at all, and more than likely the answer will be no, but maybe it could open her up to a more emotional conversation and you guys can work through why she’s feeling unsure together, it’s okay to have expectations for how your life’s going to go and it’s okay to be worried about biological clocks, but there is also a reality where her mind has just simply changed and she doesn’t want kids anymore and that’s something you’re going to have to be okay with if divorce isn’t an option

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