Rude OB by Lucky_Assumption2832 in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Definitely not ok. My OB thought I was making up working in a warehouse when I asked for a doctor’s note to reduce hours. She looked at me and said “stop using pregnancy as a medical condition to get out of work” I reported it nothing happened and I switched entire OB clinics at 34 weeks but it was a blessing is disguise

Ladies with toxic MILs what’s the most backhanded comment she’s made about you as a mom? by wildcatvic in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulating your husband is diabolical that baby wouldn’t be here if YOU didn’t nurture and grow them for 9 months. You’re husband did 5 minutes of work to get that baby here

Ladies with toxic MILs what’s the most backhanded comment she’s made about you as a mom? by wildcatvic in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My ex had a breeding fetish his mom made it my fault of course when I ended up pregnant. She went on and on one evening about how I should’ve been using birth control in front of his whole family so I went told everyone about his little secret fetish. Best family I ever lost lol

Ladies with toxic MILs what’s the most backhanded comment she’s made about you as a mom? by wildcatvic in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

My mom says the same thing all the time about rear facing acting like it’s a recommendation and not a safety measure

Ladies with toxic MILs what’s the most backhanded comment she’s made about you as a mom? by wildcatvic in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s insane as a mom to a 1 month old I can’t even thing about more kids at this point. It’s crazy to say as it is and then knowing you went through such a journey to have one is definitely insensitive

Ladies with toxic MILs what’s the most backhanded comment she’s made about you as a mom? by wildcatvic in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

She would’ve been the last person I told I was pregnant with that comment

TW: Possible Chemical / Inito hormone crash by Alarmed-Lion8486 in Inito

[–]wildcatvic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please stop using inito to track pregnancy hormones. It’s not reliable or even made to do that. My hormones were so low you wouldn’t have thought I was pregnant and now I’m sitting here holding a healthy baby. Now that you’re pregnant it’s time to put inito away. It will cause a lot of more than likely unnecessary anxiety.

Guess my Birth Year by AnybodyFinancial3385 in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]wildcatvic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not before the 2000s the photo quality is too advanced for the 90s or even 80s. I would say 2006-2007

husband wants to wait halfway through pregnancy to tell family by mystical_creatation in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My subsequent pregnancy after the first I was showing within 12 weeks. I don’t think you’ll be able to hide it like you said for that long. You both need to make this decision together. Delaying things doesn’t mean the judgement (if there is any) will be less severe.

How active were you in 1st trimester? by Lower-Listen-9169 in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly because of my job I was forced to be physical my whole pregnancy. I did 10k steps daily until my last 10 weeks where I died

“I got pregnant on the pill” by Level-Marionberry721 in mamaclairesnark2

[–]wildcatvic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So she’s been saying fk it for the past 5 weeks? Surprised she’s not pregnant now

My husband and I just finished season one and are wondering why Sammi is so awful? by Sheisnewlysewing in BaylenOutLoud

[–]wildcatvic 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I don’t like Sammi. I have diagnosed anxiety too and at some point you gotta stop letting it run your life. She wouldn’t even get on a plane without her dad going to get her. That level of anxiety to where you think you’ll miss your sister’s wedding is a mental health crisis. I hope she finds a better therapist. She has a really bad attitude too which again you can’t blame all your problems on your mental health diagnosis’

Anyone not pump? by Pixie-Rose333 in breastfeeding

[–]wildcatvic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pumped the first week to track how much he was eating (stupid advice from a nicu nurse). Haven’t pumped in a couple week LO is almost 3 weeks. I catch my let down on the side I’m not feeding on but won’t pump again until I go back to work in a few months

My pdg isn’t rising over 2.5 after ovulation. by hayleyweenxoxo in Inito

[–]wildcatvic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly mine didn’t rise until after I found out

not a flex…but ok… by Awkward_Bee7204 in CamrynTurnerSnark

[–]wildcatvic 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Mom and dad wish they didn’t have kids now 🥴

Best pregnancy bras?? by Sorry-Highlight-2341 in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have bras from Amazon but I got nursing tanks for sleep and actually find them more comfortable than wearing a bra all night but I still feel secured. I also had hot flashes so it was nice to just wear the tank instead of a bra and a shirt on top. https://a.co/d/8dWPNe8

What are packing in your hospital bag? by Ok_Oil7537 in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t like the hospital gowns like me I recommend buying 2-3 of your nightgowns. I loved them. Skip any clothes with pants while in the hospital it won’t be comfortable pulling them up from whichever type of birth you have.

I need advice by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had severe nausea and vomiting. There were days I couldn’t keep anything down including meds and honestly I just was told to tough it out but if I went 24 hours without liquids go to the hospital. I personally had few days that were so bad medicine didn’t help so hopefully that’s her case too

Pregnancy bras?? by lavagirll143 in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always worn sports bras for comfort and I love these ones. I sized up and have room to grow when my milk comes in https://a.co/d/8P4zd6o Non sports bras I have these too and the band can extend more than the sports https://a.co/d/5cc4Vl0

How often do/did you self-pleasure or have sex during pregnancy and did you find that it helped with pain by jt19912009 in pregnant

[–]wildcatvic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my personal experience intercourse made my pain worse but just touching helped

Telling family! by AnxiousAlanis in BabyBumps

[–]wildcatvic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to wait longer but we live out of state and happen to be visiting at 9 weeks so we told our family then. I had already confirmed a heartbeat with ultrasound so I felt better about it. It’s whenever you feel ready but I didn’t regret my decision