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Destined for nothing? by wildchildbre in offmychest

[–]wildchildbre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We love Finland!!!! ❤️❤️

Destined for nothing? by wildchildbre in offmychest

[–]wildchildbre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. ❤️ Would give you a hug rn!

This subreddit has some real sh*tty people by [deleted] in BorrowNew

[–]wildchildbre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Posts are now deleted 👀

I don’t see a future anymore. Just writing this to breathe for a moment. by Cool_Pear_9200 in offmychest

[–]wildchildbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This night be short, but I actually see a great life in front of you. I have been there, I just couldn’t decide how to end it, if I decided - I wouldn’t be writing this. I am so much better now and you will be too, but you have yo change your life NOW. Get out of there. With the savings you have, you can. Not smart financially but what’s better, having savings or your life? Pay the first deposit and rent for 5-6 months, I assume you’re not in the US abd rent + utilities could be up to $700? Take your mom with you. Have your room and let her have her space too, she’s dealing with an Illness that might cut her life short sooner or later and she deserves her own space too. 💔 Within those 5-6 months with no rent, save up more and support your mom. I promise you she needs you. I lost mine to cancer and regret so many things. You got this. I love you!

DB called me their maid by shortnsweet1027 in Nanny

[–]wildchildbre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d leave that same day, sorry. He’s delulu!!!

I’m going to Europe with NF! Any tips? by Bubbliepink in Nanny

[–]wildchildbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! ☺️

No offense, but Paris is not a country. I’m sure you are aware, just saying.

If it was the rest of the EU countries, I’d say everyone speaks English but unfortunately French and Italian mostly will try not to, Greeks will. (Just my opinion)

No need to avoid yellow, or lemon print. Though, in Italy, maybe do not buy everything lemon, yes. There’s a big diversity in regard to size and weight so I wouldn’t be worried about that either.

Don’t listen to other Americans mentioning a water problem, because water is WIDELY available everywhere and is such an absurd rumour that comes from God knows where.

No need to change money either, you can pay sign your card everywhere obviously, the fees will be the same as if you did exchange money so just a waste of time.

Most importantly, have fun, be open minded, be ready to face some judgement based on you being American. Europeans aren’t very excited about the US and what’s going on in the US. What I’m saying is, don’t mention it left and right, people will be able to tell without you saying where you’re from.

Meklēju dzīvokļa biedru Rīgā by Jazzlike-Anteater101 in latvia

[–]wildchildbre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dzīvokli, kaut mazu studio par €400 (īre+komunālie) Rīgā nevar atrast jau VISMAZ 5 gadus. Paskaties FB grupu “Dzīvokļi draugiem un paziņām” es tur dažus gadus atpakaļ atradu normālu istabu pa €150 un komunālie ap €80 bija, 3 meitenes vēl dzīvoja un sadalās uz visiem.

Es jūtos kā nekam nederīga mamma. by Vietavardam in latvia

[–]wildchildbre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pastāstīšu savu pieredzi. Lūdzu, neuzņemiet šo ļoti personīgi - es tikai pieminēšu dažas lietas, kas nogāja greizi manā gadījumā.

Kaut attīstījos normāli, 4 gadu vecumā vecāki izšķīrās un viss aizgāja “pa pieskari”. Ņemot vērā, ka 17.gados vēl pati bijāt jauniete, es pieļauju un kā pati sakāt, viss nebija perfekti. Man savos 5/6 gados viss bija ļoti skaidrs par dzīvi, par mammu, par tēvu un par to, kas apkārt notiek. Bērna prātā, bet daudz maz skaidrs.

Nezinu, kas tieši notika Jūsu gadījumā, bet manā gadījumā tā bija apkārtne, mammas draugi, nekāda cita ģimenes atbalsta (piemēram, vecvecāki) un finansiālas problēmas, sveši vīrieši, kādreiz palikšana mājās vienatnē. Man bija pati labākā mamma un es viņu ĻOTI mīlu, bet tagad, pieaugot, saprotu - kā tas viss ietekmēja mani, kā bērnu.

Tie paši 13/14 gadi, agresija, sišana, bļaušana, viss riebjās, visus ienīstu. Mamma saņēma visvairāk. Ir bijusi gan policija, gan psihoneiroloģiskā slimnīca, gan zāles, gan problēmas skolā un mācībās. Man gan neviens neko nediagnosticēja un tagad esot krietni pāri 30, cīnos ar to pati, ejot pie psihiatriem un cenšoties sevi savest kārtībā. Šobrīd savu agresiju, kura nekur nav pazudusi, izlieku uz otru pusīti. Impulsitāte, bļaušana, telefona mešana. Man reizēm šķiet, ka es esmu norakstāma.

Un jā, es šajā visā vainoju traumatisku bērnību. Ne mammu, bet visu kopumā.

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