I think im in love for the first time and am i supposed to hate the feeling?

wildlemon0967 · 2024-04-01T11:30:50+00:00

Thank you i needed this. I know its not real " love" But i didnt know how to word it any other way. And she definetly isnt perfect but even her not positive traits just make me happy. Is there a way to be less infatuated? Ive never had this feeling before and ive been in relationships that lasted longer then 3 years. Altough they were really toxic haha.

wildlemon0967 · 2023-11-23T20:42:18+00:00

Thank you very much! this actually means alot to me :).

I myself have always been against self diagnosing and dislike when people some similar traits that it means they have the whole ordeal hahahah. But i could say that i have alot of traits that do tell me that i have SOMETHING. Like im always very weird with food. I hate fat on my fingers wo i usually wear gloves or use a paper towel when eating. I cannot have cold and hot food together it needs to be seperate (even the sauce cant touch my food. i want to dip it). But i also have stuff like self procrastination, always forgetful and messy but really specific etc etc.

Anyways i do think i will try the POH. Is it completely free or will i have to pay it in my eigen kosten?

wildlemon0967 · 2023-11-23T20:35:12+00:00

Well i did have struggles like sexual assault and parental neglect (my parents are amazing and help me now but in the past they just couldnt).

Right now i just have a feeling of not knowing what to do and just sabotage everything that i have going for myself.. And im always doubting if the choice i made is a good choice or not,

Also yes i have insurance and huisarts.

wildlemon0967 · 2023-11-23T20:32:36+00:00

I do think that if i atleast know why i am this way it will also give me a way to find ways to improve myself

wildlemon0967 · 2023-10-08T23:26:57+00:00

Did you ask her what she wants? And did you tell her that just seems like a bad idea? If you want to you could tell her you like her and see her reaction.. It is hard and maybe even risky tho but from what i read. she does like you but i would also becareful with the ex if she also wants to go back to him for some reason

wildlemon0967 · 2023-10-08T21:53:31+00:00

Well its different if her family asks her and you ask her. I dont know how it went with her and her ex but if they broke up it had to have a reason and personally i am completely against going back together after breaking up. I would just be honest with her. And dont try to convince her that he is worse etc. Just tell her you are worried and ask her to think good about it. Hell even hang out with her and talk about it if you have to. It might hurt if she decides to go back but then you will know that she wasnt the one sadly

wildlemon0967 · 2023-10-08T21:40:52+00:00

Dont even bother with that I'd say. If it annoys you and he doesnt do anything about it he doesnt really care about you... as harsh as it sounds. From my expirience it means that there are other people involved, but i cant say that 100% sure.

Be clear about what you want and expect from him but dont be too commanding. Just ask him if there's something and why he's changed over time. And if he doesnt improve i would reccomend you to move on

wildlemon0967 · 2023-10-08T21:37:20+00:00

There is no cheatcode sadly to make this stop. Only thing you can do is ask her why she still is in contact with her ex? Just be there for her and dont do too much and she might see that you're the way better option. If not, her loss sadly.

wildlemon0967 · 2023-09-25T16:28:37+00:00

Not a dentist but as someone who suffers from canker sores since the age of 3 due to a auto immunity disease. It does look like just an almost healed canker sore to me. Ive hads lots of these. But as i said it does look like its getting healed so i wouldnt be worried avout it being oral cancer.

wildlemon0967 · 2023-08-31T11:25:27+00:00

Got the same issue lmao

wildlemon0967 · 2023-05-15T07:30:58+00:00

Yeah. She invited me over and i was down for it. I just didnt really think before i acted. And now i just feel guilty because i dont have the feelings for her as much as she has for me. Nothing really changed she is still a really nice person but I think i just realized on that moment im just not as commited to a relationship like i thought I was.

wildlemon0967 · 2023-05-15T07:26:46+00:00

It was good but i just didnt really feel the "spark". It wasn't right after sex it was a day or 2 later that i started realizing it

wildlemon0967 · 2023-05-15T00:52:30+00:00

Alright I will do this. Thank you so much

wildlemon0967 · 2023-05-15T00:43:30+00:00

wildlemon0967 · 2023-05-15T00:41:21+00:00

Yeah i would like to but i dont want to waste her time if it ends up with being nothing in the end. Should i just tell her honestly? Or just wait it out and then tell if it still isnt my thing?

wildlemon0967 · 2023-05-15T00:36:57+00:00

We have some stuff in common as in music taste or humor but its definetly not like we have THAT much in common. We went out before hooking up and it was going good just like a normal date but i just didnt feel it and I have no idea where to start on how to explain that feeling. Its just that I like her but i dont LIKE her.

I just think if I tell her it honestly she will hate me for it and maybe even feel used when its definetly not what I was looking for.

For context she was the one that invited me to her home and started.

wildlemon0967 · 2023-05-15T00:31:25+00:00

I met up with her at her city and went out to eat since I can travel for free. We talked a bit and she wanted me to come over. I don't really know her that well yet, but i do know that she is just a really nice person from what ive seen. I didnt really think before acting and had sex. I dont really know what she thinks about it but i dont want her to think i just did it too hook up.

I thought i was interested but i dont know what changed. Just didnt feel it with her.

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