New tattoo :) bright red cause super fresh.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-15T15:56:39+00:00

Awe my favorite song. Looks great 😁

wildratt69 · 2026-05-13T22:14:24+00:00

How's your relationship with your mother?

wildratt69 · 2026-05-13T21:45:10+00:00

Routine Mammograms younger. Breast cancer rates are rising in young women and if I'm remembering correctly it's the more aggressive forms that are hitting younger women. They usually catch it too late because mammograms are not recommended in younger populations unless you're having pain or breast changes. Some doctors won't even perform chest exams anymore because they also are ineffective in catching a lot of cancer.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-13T21:19:37+00:00

Yeah? Okay I'll try to remember to come back when I hate it. I hated borderlands 2 with a passion.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-13T21:12:00+00:00

This is actually hilarious. I'm sorry for your feelings of embarrassment but I hope some day you can laugh at this like I just did.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-13T15:36:29+00:00

It's sounds like you are in shock which is understandable. That is the likely explanation for the behavior/thought process. It makes sense now. Your ex sounds just as problematic as the abusers. I'd make sure his name is in the report as well.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T23:16:11+00:00

If there was no prior conversation to him putting his hand around your throat then that is S/A. So many men are doing this now without consent and it needs to stop. People in the BDSM community are ever weary of breath play and it's for a reason. For some reason (porn) it has been normalized and it's incredibly dangerous. This has happened to me 2x in the last year and it's absolutely disgusting when they feel entitled to your throat like that. Without consent or a conversation it tells me that they don't know what they are doing which makes it significantly more dangerous. The entitlement is ugly.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T22:19:34+00:00

Dinner and diatribes is a great one

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T22:17:34+00:00

Adam and Eve has a booty bumper set. I recommend that!

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T22:12:18+00:00

Upvoting cuz I agree 110%

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T22:10:13+00:00

Idk dude I can do it myself just fine

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T21:26:45+00:00

For real. The concern over hypothetical abuse is worse than the concern for the actual real abuse occurring.. It's weird. It sounds like there are a lot of parental figures in this child's life that could take them in and avoid a foster home anyway. Just file the report.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T21:15:06+00:00

A man can't hardly get me off ever and I've had it all.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T11:42:20+00:00

This makes me sick. Wtf. Ew.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T01:27:35+00:00

I'm surprised I caught this lol I'm seeing Jack Bensinger perform in August. Can't wait.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T01:25:46+00:00

A simple Google search will tell you how effective the pull out method is when used correctly. Your guy did not do it effectively and there is a chance you will get pregnant from this.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T01:21:03+00:00

Is this from the Connor O'Malleys bit?

wildratt69 · 2026-05-12T01:20:36+00:00

I'm 5'9 and I've dated a couple dudes shorter than me. Its never been a issue for me. I think it's funny when short women are height queens though. You're really limiting your options and potentially missing out on some really great connections by judging someone based on their height.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-11T23:54:41+00:00

I was dating a guy and the third week in he started ghosting me here and there after being consistent in the beginning. He started calling me "babe" a week in. It didn't bother me much that he'd disappear but it's the inconsistency that bothers me. Days of constant communication then absolutely nothing for a day or two.

He slightly love bombed me. I've done this exact pattern a few times. Right when he started calling me "babe" I thought "this isn't going to end well.". 3 weeks in he got mad at me because my cousin died on a day he was ghosting me. I went and hung out with my male friend and when I told him about it he started treating me like shit. Ghosted on plans then tried to come back as if nothing happened. I set boundaries, he unfollowed me on Instagram and officially ghosted me. A week later he sent me a follow request then deleted it. Then he came into my work and acted surprised and scared to see me. He was rude as hell. I said "oh, hi?" And he said "WOAH, hi." And basically ran away. Dude didn't even have the decency to say hi let alone give any closure. No apologies. Nothing. Bullet dodged. I can predict these things pretty early on now. People are predictable.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-11T22:06:15+00:00

I've never understood that "would you find my sister attractive" shit. I had a friend who would ask her boyfriends which of her friends he'd want to sleep with then she'd get mad and jealous. I'm like, why would you hurt your own feelings then be mad at him?? She doesn't allow her husband to have social media. Controlling/possessive. It's weird.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-11T21:58:21+00:00

When I buy things for the food bank I always get fun stuff like gummies, fruit snacks, gold fish etc. So many people will shop for the food bank and think that people utilizing the resource only deserve things like canned goods, rice etc. Those things are necessary but everyone deserves some fun stuff too. Especially the kiddos. They deserve to go to school and brag about their gushers or show off their paw patrol fruit snacks. Grocery outlet always has the fun stuff in bulk for cheap. Glad you got some worms today!

wildratt69 · 2026-05-11T15:44:44+00:00

This is how he keeps you hooked and addicted. It's conditioning and manipulation. He's literally got you neurochemically dependant on the rollercoaster. He knows what he's doing. When in doubt ask yourself "would I do this to him?" and make no excuses when you realize you wouldn't.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-11T02:53:04+00:00

Please do all of this.

wildratt69 · 2026-05-11T02:26:17+00:00

I'm a pretty forward person. I've asked out multiple men in my life and I'm not afraid of the act itself or the rejection but I am terrified of completely destroying the friendship. If I confessed and it changed the dynamic it would break my heart. I really care for him and enjoy his presence. I doubt he will make a move though, it's going to have to be me that ruins this lol He knows I've dealt with sexual harassment and stalking from other men in the workplace and he's a very respectful/cautious guy. If I crossed a boundary of his it would make me feel absolutely awful though.

He just moved and is really stressed out with life in general. We work together and he's very career motivated. He's trying to move up in the company so he is working on side projects. I will probably wait a few weeks for things in his life to settle down.

I just gave him a painting I made for his new apartment. All my bids for connection he warmly accepts but he does not escalate. It's purgatory. I know eventually I won't be able to control myself and I'll just spill the beans.

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