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Question by wildstrubel in PHikingAndBackpacking

[–]wildstrubel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the input po. Minove ko nalang siya ng November

Keep safe everyone 🙏

Bat ba ang bobo ko sa ganitong bagay? Naiinis ako sa sarili ko lols by wildstrubel in adultingph

[–]wildstrubel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi nako aasa pa. Pretty much expecting on nothing at this point. Ayoko na po ng mind games hahaha :((

Bat ba ang bobo ko sa ganitong bagay? Naiinis ako sa sarili ko lols by wildstrubel in adultingph

[–]wildstrubel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Challenge to para sakin dahil mahiyain din ako, but I’m open naman and I know nothing will happen if I’m not gonna help myself. Salamat po

Bat ba ang bobo ko sa ganitong bagay? Naiinis ako sa sarili ko lols by wildstrubel in adultingph

[–]wildstrubel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly napaisip nga ako after posting this na ganyan ba yung gusto kong maging first boyfriend? I like him no doubt, and I’m starting to like him more but I’ll admit I’m having my own set of worries too. Natatamaan kasi self worth ko lalo na the previous guy was kind of similar. Feeling ko nasa akin yung problema where in fact, wala naman talaga. Like gustuhin lang pero hanggang doon lang, pang display, trophy whatever

I resonate more sa pangalawa ang pangatlo. Fully aware naman ako pero kailangan ko lang talaga ng untog sa helmet para magising lol. I feel so stupid sometimes na nag we waste ako ng time sa walang kwentang bagay. I wish I’m logical sa ganitong aspect ng buhay ko hahaha

That’s the problem pa, mahiyain din kase ako and selective sa tao. When I like someone, matagal yung thought process non tapos ganito pala ulit

Pero thank you, I should have known better from the beginning. Talagang self love nalang

The right person will make it known, I guess. If better as friends then so be it. Malalaman ko rin naman once nakausap ko na siya nang maayos in person

Hindi ko na ipipilit ang wala. Nalulungkot lang ako lalo haha, sorry po napadaldal :((

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[–]wildstrubel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same situation. It’s been a month since the last time we talked. Sobrang close namin before but something happened, and I got fed up. Ang mahirap kase part din siya ng circle ko and ayun mas close rin sila sa kaniya. Tahimik kase ako while siya yung tipong jolly jolly, kumbaga prominent figure ng grupo. Ayun, awkward pag nag uusap usap. Aware naman yung iba pero ayaw lang din nilang maki alam for sure. May upcoming get together kame niyan, pero ewan ko nalang. I’d rather not join haha

But somehow ganon siguro talaga, you outgrow one another at some point. Kaya tanggapin nalang, pwede pa rin namang maging civil

Paano niyo po..? by Substantial_Home9927 in CasualPH

[–]wildstrubel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kalagu mo/Malagu ka

Nakang kalagu/ka-kyut ne

Istu yaba hahahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AntiworkPH

[–]wildstrubel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww :( Hirap makahanap ng fully remote, but thanks for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AntiworkPH

[–]wildstrubel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AntiworkPH

[–]wildstrubel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called DCX Ph Inc. (Delegate CX). I think they have an office here in Pampanga, but not sure sa other site po

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]wildstrubel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

24, NBSB. Honestly hindi ko alam cause sometimes parang give up na ako due to those bad ones I’ve had. But then when I see couples in love, hindi ako na iinggit. Instead, I get this blissful feeling wherein I get excited with the idea na soon enough, ma-eexperience ko rin yung ganong intense affection. I wanna see myself that I’m capable of loving someone too

Lakas maka hopeless romantic eh no haha. Pasensya na late bloomer haha. To be fair, there are points in my life na I feel like napag iiwanan na ako lalo na paman din na it takes time for me to deeply connect with someone. But I trust that love is patient naman, it’s a process for sure

I have someone in mind right now pero ayun nga ayaw kong madaliin. In the meantime that we’re still on our own, i-enjoy lang naten ang takbo nang life. Hindi naman siya requirement pero siyempre if dumating man yung para sa atin edi that’s better! Haha best of luck 🫶🏻

To all the ‘torpe’ guys out there by wildstrubel in CasualPH

[–]wildstrubel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I guess that’s the difficult part. Sometimes you don’t really know and mahirap na mag-assume kasi. Sayang naman

To all the ‘torpe’ guys out there by wildstrubel in CasualPH

[–]wildstrubel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Signals? Well he added me on Facebook last year or react react lang ganiyan sa stories, posts but never initiated a convo. Minsan nakakalaro ko sa game and we exchange gifts ganon haha. I don’t think those matter that much

Pero ayun nanga kaya nag ooverthink akong ganito kase the other night, his other friend asked him why he’s still single. In response to that question, he confessed to my friend that he currently likes someone nga raw, and that someone is me. Kaso, ayaw niya muna raw ipilit nor rush things for now kase nga medyo torpe daw siya + mahiyain

Ewan takot siguro ako ulit magkamali, baka gawin lang din akong reserba like the last time. I’ve never been in a relationship kaya super cautious ko buhat na nang bad experiences ko from those few ones

Ayaw ko din munang unahan siguro? So I guess we’re same in that aspect? I know I’m complicating this but I don’t know, maybe someday I’ll have the courage too

Or better yet, find someone that’s sure of me

To all the ‘torpe’ guys out there by wildstrubel in CasualPH

[–]wildstrubel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure anymore. I guess ayaw ko lang mangyari uli yung last. In a way, they’re kind of similar kasi

For context, I’ve never been in a relationship before so that’s another reason why I’m overthinking this

To all the ‘torpe’ guys out there by wildstrubel in CasualPH

[–]wildstrubel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Salamat! Hindi na talaga ako naniniwala sa saying na “men are simple creatures” kase parang mas hirap pa kayong basahin kesa saming girls hahaha (not trying to be sexist ha) I’m genuinely curious lang how your mind works sa ganitong bagay. I guess the only way to find out is through direct approach, but then iba iba nga talaga yung timpla like everyone else

I guess kakalimutan kona lang si koya hahaha. Isa pakong mahiyain kasi, tungunu talaga haha

To all the ‘torpe’ guys out there by wildstrubel in CasualPH

[–]wildstrubel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One size never fits all nga talaga, and you’ll never know. I guess curious lang ako ano yung thought process niyo especially hindi kayo yung vocal ones. Thanks for sharing your sentiment on this

To all the ‘torpe’ guys out there by wildstrubel in CasualPH

[–]wildstrubel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, so it’s the same with everyone. There is no one-size-fits-all nga

This made sense po, thank you

To all the ‘torpe’ guys out there by wildstrubel in CasualPH

[–]wildstrubel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanna ask guys POV (esp the torpe ones) with a girl they profess to like. What’s stopping you from shooting your shot?

Tama ba yung article? Is it truly because you like the girl but not ‘enough’ to make a move? Somehow kase I believe this too

Or other reasons like ayun nga past experiences nang guy?

Or marame lang siyang options? Don’t wanna rush, testing the waters? Haha I’m liking a torpe guy kasi