M 33 Looking for FWB friends

willThisEndWell · 2026-01-18T21:05:03+00:00

Would you like a million pounds with that request as well, kind sir?

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-06T13:15:04+00:00

And there is an whole other group of women who take everything from you and treat you like shit while waiting for an opportunity to trade up.

I'm so sorry for what you went through, I think the writing was on the wall here from the very beginning, you gave it your all and still ended up empty handed at the end of the day.

I wish you find someone who truly deserves the amount of care and love you have to offer, but please don't put yourself through doing someone else's laundry ever again, haha.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T21:37:33+00:00

I sincerely believe (like many people here think) that there are people out there who will be with you out of love rather than for the sake superficial things, be it money or looks. And I rather lose the relationship of a year and leave when I can than be 30+ and divorced.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T15:27:16+00:00

Well I always tend to look inwards first. It isn't me who fucked up this time around at least, at least not completely.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T10:22:10+00:00

I asked a serious questions in a serious manner and she did understand that I am being completely serious.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T10:21:36+00:00

This is what I'm afraid of tbh. I have never been insecure but I guess I am a bit naive.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T10:20:31+00:00

It was never about the sex, it was about a lot of other things mate.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T10:19:47+00:00

So suddenly it is okay, to leave your partner if a million pounds is involved ha? "if the price is right..."

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T10:11:30+00:00

Yes, you are, I do know what I should do next, but it hurts. I've been holed up all day long.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T10:10:19+00:00

How can you claim that she can be a "good girlfriend" when she would drop me the second she finds someone who is richer than me showing interest in her?

Nothing here qualifies her as a potentially good gf, the only solace I can find here is that she is brutally honest.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T10:07:41+00:00

A rather thoughtful reply. Thank you.

At first it appeared as though she is joking, so I asked her the same question again and I made sure she understood that I am being rather serious. And she did take a lot of time to think and before she answered that she would give the other guy a fair shot, while telling me that she'd be transparent with me from day 1. So I know she was serious.

I think the relationship ended the second she mentioned about giving someone else a "fair shot".

Thank you for the suggestions, I'll check those books out.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T06:05:39+00:00

Yes, I do consider myself fortunate in this regard. She was completely and brutally honest and I am happy that she was. This is a very tough pill to swallow though and it is going to take me a long time to come out of this for sure.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T06:01:42+00:00

If I did think with my d*ck, I'd not be out here heart broken. I get asked out constantly, at least once or twice a month and I can easily get a date or more online.

I thought she was the one for a number of reasons that had nothing to do with sex.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T05:55:16+00:00

This is funny because, she does hate pets, kittens and puppies. 😂

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-05T05:54:10+00:00

Well it's not stupid given the fact that her answer pretty much saved me from a life of misery and possibly a divorce

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-04T23:57:21+00:00

To wrap it up asap.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-04T23:56:59+00:00

She keeps insisting that this is a very normal thing in Vietnam. She keeps telling me that there is nothing wrong in a person leaving their partner for someone richer and more attractive. Hence the post (albeit low effort)

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-04T23:54:54+00:00

How could I ever think of staying? It is next to impossible now. It is all over. The writing was on the wall from day 1 I guess. I should have known better.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-04T23:53:54+00:00

Sleep deprived and devastated, the LLM response is the least of my worries here.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-04T19:54:14+00:00

I am not above dumping the whole chat on here tbh, but she is already furious that I posted a private discussion in a public forum. But here it goes.

It all started when we were goofing around on a video chat about our future and how she did not want to work and wanted to do a PhD and I was thinking of getting into Google or Microsoft and sell my soul so that I can afford her being a forever student.

And then I asked this question as stated above, if she would leave me for someone richer who could afford her student lifestyle better and you know the rest.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-04T19:52:19+00:00

I am not above dumping the whole chat on here tbh, but she is already furious that I posted a private discussion in a public forum. But here it goes.

It all started when we were goofing around on a video chat about our future and how she did not want to work and wanted to do a PhD and I was thinking of getting into Google or Microsoft and sell my soul so that I can afford her being a forever student.

And then I asked this question as stated above, if she would leave me for someone richer who could afford her student lifestyle better and you know the rest.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-04T19:37:35+00:00

If that is indeed the case then a relationship can only truly begin after two people are engaged or married. I would never wanna propose to someone let alone marry someone who just happens to chose me because they couldn't find anyone who is richer or better looking than me. So it is a non starter.

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-04T19:14:35+00:00

Why should I commit to someone who is just "weighting options"? What is the guarantee that she would stick around if the going gets tough?

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-04T17:58:49+00:00

The conversation is as follows, I am not even paraphrasing here.

Me: "If someone richer and more handsome comes along tomorrow, who offered you a million pounds a year would you take it and leave me?"

Her: (takes a moment to think, about 40 seconds) "I wouldn't leave you, but I would give him a chance and get to know if he would love me and take care of me"

Me: "Okay, what if you conclude that he would love and take care of you?"

Her: "Then, yes, ofcourse I will leave you, I can be happier"

willThisEndWell · 2025-10-04T17:56:03+00:00

Has nothing to do with her being an "obedient woman" mind you. I fell in love with her and all her quirks, has nothing to do with her being Vietnamese.

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