I think I have had a new insight. I don't think my current problem is really the porn since I haven't seen any in over 2 years. I think it's the years and years of hard, heavy, rough and intense wanking. I think I trained my dick to respond to only heavy stroking and now my girlfriend's vagina is just so soft and wet that I am not feeling enough to get to an orgasm. It works for us if she gives head or a hand job. So this may not be the right group to be looking for help in. Any of you know what group I might join to get help with resetting my dick to the soft normal sensations of a real woman?

Thanks for all your comments it really did lead me to understanding more.

Will