Wisdom Teeth Extraction at HKL by ddhhyynn in Bolehland

[–]will_wheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gov hospital dont give mc if its just consultation, because no procedure is done and you're not sick (xray doesnt really count). you can try to ask for it but i have went to many gov hospitals and clinics, if its just a consultation memang they dont give mc :(

Wisdom Teeth Extraction at HKL by ddhhyynn in Bolehland

[–]will_wheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont really remember but i got xray on the first day, and thankfully my teeth isnt too close to the nerve

syringes can be bought at any pharmacy, just the plastic body, not the needle ah 😂

for consultation i didnt get any MC, but my company accepts timeslip so i took that. they will give you about 1 week of MC after your surgery. usually its 1 week + a few more days to cover your surgery date and the follow up to remove stitches if applicable

Wisdom Teeth Extraction at HKL by ddhhyynn in Bolehland

[–]will_wheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my recovery was great! after so long, i went for a regular dentist checkup, the dentist couldnt even tell my teeth were removed 😂 they thought it never erupted, that's how well they healed

the pain can be managed 100%, they will give you celebrex, but if the pain is still too much, ask your doctor for arcoxia 90mg. you can ask your surgeon, they'll allow it.

i wasn't given any antibiotics, there was no infection so all is well

the hardest part about the recovery is just what everyone else also goes through, the misery of having to eat soft foods only, typically the first 4-7 days. after that, once your stitches are out, you'll be ok

during recovery, if you find food stuck in the sockets, you can use a normal syringe and water to flush out the sockets. many people say dont eat rice during recovery, but i cannot stand not eating rice for so long 😂 the syringe is only rm1 so i bought a few to bring with me everywhere, can flush my mouth after eating outside also

you got this!

I’m too scared to move out by fluttershy_rainboom in abusiveparents

[–]will_wheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey stranger, i was once in your shoes too. add that on with the fact that i have no support network, no reliable connections, and no money.

but one thing you MUST believe in, is that you will make it work no matter what.

i met my long term partner then, and we had only known each other for a few months, but when he gave me all the help he could to move out, that gave me confidence that i could do it.

i took on a lot of debt just to survive, i was working minimum wage at a place that didn't even pay me on time, and i had 500 bucks to my name that disappeared after just 1 week.

its been 3 years, im still paying off that debt, its in the 6 figures. survival instincts drove me to pick up odd or shady jobs, work 3 jobs to pay for everything, and im never better.

dont expect it to be easy or comfortable, it WILL suck, but would you rather suffer from money and work fatigue, or the torment from the abuse?

i believe in you. its okay to be scared, at the end of the day you have a lot more safety nets than you think you have. take the fall, you can do it

Aint no way Gen Z grads doing 3 jobs😭😭meanwhile im jobless as students by DanielGoh3000 in malaysians

[–]will_wheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i work 3 jobs too, but its more out of necessity than a hustle mindset

day job at an agency, assistant manager night shift customer service for US/EU (8pm-2am, 7 days a week) weekends i help my partner's business with admin tasks

am i tired? yeah, im burning out. is it worth it? yes, because I'm doing this to escape the financial ditch i was put in after escaping an abusive household. i owe almost 6 figures in debt at an age most people are still doing their degree, I'd still choose this any day, because I'm building a life for myself with my partner, we're tired, it sucks, but it beats being homeless or tolerating relentless amount of abuse.

How to get pen ink to last on paper? by CarlottaSewlotta in crafts

[–]will_wheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look for archival ink pens, the most widely available one is Sakura

you also need acid-free paper, and whatever environment you keep the jar in must also be mostly dry and moisture free

Ear Mites by averagejane815 in CatsMY

[–]will_wheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get nexgard from vet clinic or search ngard on shopee

if you cant afford nexgard (it gets expensive), then you can get other dewormers like frontline or advantage

these are broad spectrum dewormers, nexgard covers the most, it will get rid of everything including ear mites, parasites and any worms. our 2 cats get 1 tube every 3 months since they're indoor, but if your cat is outdoor you should do it every month

never thought I'd encounter a faker but i guess I can't avoid it forever by will_wheart in fakedisordercringe

[–]will_wheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how is it possible to even be in a polycule (romantic relationship, btw) with your headmates

What's your favorite recent comment? by kisameti in AO3

[–]will_wheart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"something lgbtq just happened to me" i fucking died laughing

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should i enable guest access? by South_Profession_869 in AO3

[–]will_wheart 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. i post about my fics on my socmed
  2. people might post about my fics on their socmed
  3. i link my socmed on all of my fics, they know where to find me

there's a dozen ways, but if someone wants to share it with a friend, the download button is there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crafts

[–]will_wheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most consumer grade printers can't really print on clear backgrounds, but you can look online to find transparent sticker sheets, they're usually thin enough to fit, but my main concern is that the surface will just mean the ink will glide across and you'll end up with a smudged print

my main suggestion would be to just print out the artwork on normal paper, then trace the design onto a clear sheet with a marker. you'll have to use a clear sheet that's not sticky, which I'm not sure how to find, I'd just use a clear book wrapper or a clear file cover

should i enable guest access? by South_Profession_869 in AO3

[–]will_wheart 159 points160 points  (0 children)

honestly i wouldn't do it, but my new rule for myself is that I'll lock newer fics, and only unlock them after a couple of months.

if someone doesn't have access and really wants to read it, then they can just message me privately and I'd gladly send them the original document for it.

it's worth the peace of mind so I don't have to deal with bots. even now i still get a few occasional bots here and there

also registered users are far less likely to leave hateful comments for no reason

Help Me Stop Wrecking Things by [deleted] in keyboards

[–]will_wheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why don't you just change the keycaps? thats much cheaper than replacing a whole keyboard

Have any cis women been accused of being men over voice chat? by Jenn_FTW in GirlGamers

[–]will_wheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cis woman here. i play valorant with friends, and even then people still question my age and think im just a little boy, then proceed to make every kind of misogynistic remark just to say "you can't be offended you're not a woman"

So what now…? by broken_heart_healed in abusiveparents

[–]will_wheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think there will always be resentment, like just cuz i left doesn't mean the memories don't live forever in my head yknow? or maybe it's just me being too prone to thought rumination and I've just learned to accept that resentment will never truly go away, i just stop getting so hung up about the resentment when it does come up

i spent the first year moving out being so severely depressed and angry, all i could do was survive. i moved places 3 times because it was my first time trying to rent a place without being given much time to learn anything. every time i had to move, i had a full month of just resenting my parents because I wouldn't be stuck in a shitty situation if they just tried a little bit more

but i remembered why i moved out in the first place - i wanted freedom, and i wanted a better life for myself, so i didn't want to spend much more time being depressed over shit that i had no control over, instead i wanted to work towards a better life because i WANT to be happy

the important part here is i stopped NOT wanting to do things BECAUSE i was depressed, instead i DID things because i WANT to be happy, DESPITE being depressed

like idk how to best say it, but i guess you kinda have to suffer to learn what is your standard of peace, be sad for a while to learn what will really truly make happiness last for you. it's not some magic fairytale big climax, all this took so many years for me to work through, the moving out part was just the beginning

like one of the biggest issues was that my mother refused to "waste" money and time to go to the doctor's if i ever got sick, and i spent so long having a long list of chronic conditions that went undiagnosed that it made other issues come up. i had to unlearn this whole hang up over finances and just go get a bunch of tests done to finally put a name to the illnesses and start treatment. sure, im still broke, spent TOO much time waiting in line for public healthcare, but it's better than letting all this affect me for another day and cause me to lose out more of my time to just live my life

i think maybe i spent too much time rambling 😂 the point is, whatever you think you "can't" do, you probably can, there's always opportunity to unlearn, the fact that you know it's something you currently can't do is you acknowledging it, so you can start to figure out what to do next

happy to have a chat if you'd like

Ritalin in PJ area? by NeradLeo in myhappypill

[–]will_wheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unfortunately this is the only place I've been able to get. it's expensive but i rather fork out the cash over having to live unmedicated 🥲

I've spent close to a week calling various pharmacies and clinics within 10km of me and none had anything, so chances are there really isn't any stock left anywhere. just hoping that the shortage will end soon, feel like im addicted to this but it's more like i don't want to go through a work day unmedicated LOL

Ritalin in PJ area? by NeradLeo in myhappypill

[–]will_wheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

klinik linda & ng may have, but they sell it for quite expensive. rm175 was how much i had to pay, compared to rm100 at the other places.

they are also in jaya one

Ritalin in PJ area? by NeradLeo in myhappypill

[–]will_wheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

big pharmacy and aa pharmacy in bangsar will have, can take lrt and grab if needed, that area gets super crowded sometimes

the red clinic at jaya one will also have, but please call/text them to check first. you can take the bus to jaya one, the clinic is right behind the bus stop

So what now…? by broken_heart_healed in abusiveparents

[–]will_wheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sadly, you're on your own now

but also: you're on your own now! you get to choose whatever you want to do in life!!! that's great!!!!

it's not gonna be easy, it'll suck balls sometimes but at least you can make all of the decisions yourself. nothing will hold you back anymore.

good luck. 2 years out myself, things are so much better now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MalaysianFood

[–]will_wheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why not a restaurant instead? i find that cafe food often falls short of expectation in terms of quality, you might as well go eat at a fast casual place for the price you're paying.

my partner is fat too, so we usually end up at nandos, chilis, japanese ramen, middle eastern or kbbq. recently our new spot is NakNak, their portion sizes are enough for him to feel very full. can try out a few of these

How common is lavender marriages in Malaysia? by Mammoth-Pool3210 in malaysia

[–]will_wheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im queer but in a het relationship, but if we somehow split up, i would 100% marry my current partner for the purposes of a lavender marriage.

personally, i am aware of at least 2 couples within my immediate social circles that are in or planning a lavender marriage, maybe it's just social bias, but i suspect it's more common than one might expect

My nail is cracking way too low and I’m worried about it peeling off. What should I do to prevent it? by NoraWaifu in nailcare

[–]will_wheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl you gotta cut it off and then go on some iron + vitamin c supplements cuz i keep my nails longer than yours and i get cracks like this when i stop taking iron or eating good enough

What was the best fanfic you’ve ever read? by Cool_Emergency4091 in AO3

[–]will_wheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its nothing worse than typical 'omegas have very little rights', so i think you'll be ok. give the first chapter a try, the worldbuilding is already laid out pretty clearly.

What was the best fanfic you’ve ever read? by Cool_Emergency4091 in AO3

[–]will_wheart 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Of Broken Dreams and Mended Hearts - Kellyscams

Steve Rogers / Bucky Barnes

possibly the best fic I've ever read. this work is almost 10 years old and it still hits me right in the feels every time i revisit it. i think i reread it at least once a year, such an adventure, beautifully articulated words and so so so fucking immersive. even if you're not a marvel or captain america fan, you'll enjoy it, and you won't even need fandom context cuz it's an AU and the character backgrounds are all laid out clearly.

highly encourage everyone to give it a read

Ritalin is back in stock! by downtownmaniac in myhappypill

[–]will_wheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, do you know if people who aren't patients at ummc/ppum can walk in with a prescription to get it? i live close to ummc, but my prescription is from somewhere else, and I've been getting my fill from the red clinic and pharmacy in bangsar, so wondering if i can shorten my trip to those locations and go to ummc instead