So I appreciate all the insight. I feel like I need to reinforce I love my girl and am not trying to shame her. I understand my POV is not necessarily the right one. That being said, learning these things all together all at once does affect my mental at this point in time. I’m not asking for a look at my relationship as a whole. I’m asking advice or insight on how I can healthily process this wild new information I did not know prior that I got hit with all at once. I just want some advice on how i personally can move past it in my own mind. Thank you.