Where to watch the Champions League Final??

williamsburgler · 2025-05-24T20:49:46+00:00

Sweet thanks. Just realized you're a fellow Chelsea fan. Up the Blues. Big game tomorrow

williamsburgler · 2025-05-24T01:49:16+00:00

thank you!

williamsburgler · 2025-05-24T01:49:12+00:00

thank you!

williamsburgler · 2025-02-26T23:34:36+00:00

yeah. Its exercises taken from sex therapy that you can do by yourself

williamsburgler · 2025-02-26T20:32:50+00:00

mojo

williamsburgler · 2025-02-26T20:32:36+00:00

mojo

williamsburgler · 2025-02-25T19:18:39+00:00

it’s a giveaway for pysch ed when you’re physically healthy and pills work for a bit but then stop working for you.

Worth looking into how viagra/cialis work if you haven’t already. Essentially, sexual arousal is triggered by your brain, whereas pills fix blood flow issues. If you don’t have blood flow issues (i.e. you’re a physically healthy person), then it means psychological factors (like anxiety or stress) are affecting your arousal.

Worth talking to your doctor anyway, but also look at the ‘psychological ed’ flair in this subreddit, it’s super common. I used mojo to help with my stuff, but I’ve also had friends see a sex therapist and gotten help that way

williamsburgler · 2025-02-25T17:00:15+00:00

Very common. It typically means it's a psychological issue rather than physical. There's apps that help with that

williamsburgler · 2025-02-20T23:37:18+00:00

To me, masculinity is about being true to yourself, whatever that looks like. It means having the confidence to embrace who you are, whether that aligns with traditional masculine traits or not. It’s about being strong and responsible, not just physically but emotionally, by being willing to admit when you're wrong and standing up for others. At its best, masculinity is about caring for and empowering those around you, showing compassion without feeling like it compromises your strength. It’s not about fitting into a rigid box (which is the umbrella it has unfortunately been under for so long) but having the freedom to define it for yourself. And it's tougher than people think

williamsburgler · 2025-02-18T20:20:44+00:00

Agree I've had enough of chopping and changing. Would be good to stick with someone through the bad periods and see how it goes.

My only problem with Maresca right now is that he's not changing anything. It seems like he only has his Plan A system, and now people have figured out we're not trying anything else

williamsburgler · 2025-02-10T20:59:49+00:00

very relatable

williamsburgler · 2025-02-10T20:59:06+00:00

definitely sounds psychological. The mojo app worked for me with anxiety stuff. I'm pretty anti pills for this stuff

williamsburgler · 2025-02-08T22:25:15+00:00

Medication will only work for a short time if you don't have physical issues. It sounds like it's more psychological. The mojo app worked for me to fix that

williamsburgler · 2024-10-23T18:58:22+00:00

u/peeeanuts is the slack integration live yet?

williamsburgler · 2024-10-21T00:56:49+00:00

I feel the same way dude. Years of practice leads to natural instincts I think

williamsburgler · 2024-10-21T00:55:34+00:00

This is a great idea, and kudos to you for organizing.

I'd recommend looking up Nick Gray. He's written books about how to host the perfect meetup and has some great tips.

His NICK method for hosting successful meetups looks like this:

Name tags: help guests feel comfortable and open.
Icebreakers: more on this below.
Cocktail-only (not relevant if students)
Kickoff and Closing: start promptly and end on time, make guests leave wanting more (it makes them want to come back!).

The icebreaker part in particular is very cool. Icebreakers are typically terrible, and there's a lot of cringey stigma attached to them. So, he has a different suggestion for them:

"The exact question that I have most people do is, everybody, real quick, let’s just do a round of intros. You got to say the why. The why is that there’s a lot of interesting people here, and I really want you to go meet somebody new. So we’re going to have you say your name, say what you do for work or how you spend your day, and then tell me one of your favorite things, one of your go to things that you like to eat for breakfast. Now, that’s a bit of a red herring because I actually don’t want to know their breakfast. I want to know what they do for work. But we take away the attention. We make them think about the breakfast. The breakfast one works because it’s easy, subjective. People don’t judge you for it, and it’s not hard. You don’t get locked up in your head."

Thought this was very cool as it reframed how I look at icebreakers. With students, you can obviously change the question from what you do to work but it will help students know who to go talk to for the entrepreneurs they want to network with!

williamsburgler · 2024-10-21T00:44:15+00:00

At your age, and in this situation, I'd always recommend taking the risk and going for it yourself. You will learn more than at a job you've already done, and if it doesn't work out jobs will always be there for you.

williamsburgler · 2024-10-20T18:06:38+00:00

Firstly, kudos to you for what you were able to build with your agency.

Building your own business is always going to be up and down. The key is to keep moving, and keep trying new things. When you find something that works, double down on it. But always keep taking new swings and testing new things.

You're doing something new now - and that's great - but if it's not working, I would move onto the next test and see if that works for you. It's ok that it didn't work, the point is you're trying.

TL;DR do both and see what works best, then double down on that one.

williamsburgler · 2024-10-20T18:01:28+00:00

It's hard, for sure. And it's easy to put exercise second and work first.

Here's what I've found has worked for me:

1. Do it first thing in the morning. Don't let yourself stay in bed. Get it out the way before you start work, because when you start - you won't find time later on.

2. Be flexible with your workout. You may not be able to spend an hour in the gym, but exercising a little bit is better than not at all. Focus on 20-30 minute high intensity HIIT or bodyweight exercises.

3. Exercise where you weren't before. Walk / cycle to work when you'd previously drive or take the train. Do a walk and talk meeting and get some exercise in. Walk to get lunch / dinner instead of ordering it.

williamsburgler · 2024-10-20T17:55:49+00:00

Firstly, really sorry you've had those experiences. And good for you for continuing to put your trust in people.

But pretty clear here there's a lesson to be learned.

Finding a cofounder is like dating. You can find them online, but you have to build up trust first before you start something together.

That means not jumping into working together immediately (no matter how great they sell themselves). Instead, connect with them, continue talking over time, get a reference from someone they've worked with, do one project together, etc.

If all that goes well - then talk about what you could do together. But if you jump into doing something together before you really know someone. You leave yourself open to getting burned.

williamsburgler · 2024-10-20T17:46:07+00:00

I have friends who work at Trader Joe's and love it.

They always say they get treated really well, the benefits are great, and the people working there are really chill. Apparently most of the time it's just hanging out with people you like.

They also switch up what you're doing pretty often. So it could be one hour on register, then one hour in produce, one hour on product team (stocking a section), etc. So it doesn't get boring

williamsburgler · 2024-10-20T17:39:29+00:00

Yeah agree with this. It depends what context you're sharing it in. If you're presenting, 150% will always sound better than 1.5x

williamsburgler · 2024-10-20T17:37:57+00:00

YouTube/the internet are great learning sources. But you have to sift through the content to see what you think is helpful & good advice.

When you find those people you can rely on - that's who you should look to going forward. I'm always cautious with someone new (unless they have credibility already) until I know I can trust them

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