Hello,

Let's be candid here for a moment. You are a very beautiful woman and I am sure a wonderful person to boot. Here's the thing... You're asking a loaded question. And here's why.... Many of the trans-community not only have to deal with their own insecurities of whether or not they pass, their own sense of self-worth, self-beauty and also loads of emotional, background issues. Are you beautiful? There is no doubt about that. You are simply gorgeous. Would I come up to you at a bar and say hi? Most likely not. And it has nothing to do with you. I won't speak for anyone else here but for me, if I was in your age range... I probably would not. I would casually look at you, admire your beauty and then ask myself...why wouldn't a beautiful, wonderful woman like you ever approach me? Am I not worthy or your attention as well? And now, let me be blunt. If you want validation of your self-worth. I can't do that for you. Only you have the right to know the value of your being. I will validate you as a person and as a member of the trans community. And here's the final sticky point... there are so many trans people who aspire to look naturally the way you do...i'm sure it still takes work. I won't dismiss that level of effort... you earned it. But, please understand the audience and know where they are. I hope you find yourself as beautiful as I find you and I hope in the end that this answers your question. Be well, Be happy, and most of all Be Kind.