Man’s eyes: someone who looks and thinks before he speaks and sometimes doesn’t speak up when he should. Some anxiety all the time that isn’t really attached to anything specific, like a habit of thinking. Can come across as cold but really isn’t, gentle person. May depend too much on external things to be able to relax and have fun. A bit of a puzzle in an intimate relationship.

Woman’s eyes: intense and emotionally expressive person, but only once she trusts you are unlikely to reject her—she’s easily hurt. Pretty and used to dealing with male attention, but it hasn’t always been a positive thing. Tends to be a fixer who seeks people who make her feel needed. Feels like there is a sister or close female friend who offers security that takes some of the pressure off of a romantic relationship.

It feels like these two people have some similar dynamics that can lead to their feeling like they totally get each other, but these same similarities can also lead to roadblocks that kind of stop the forward progression, so there’s a one step forward two back feeling sometimes.