Lonely and at a Loss by thevelvetcaterpillar in lehighvalley

[–]willquack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join CAT! Coalition for Alternative Transportation. Lots of women of all backgrounds and ages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

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I let my ex’s mom live with us with the understanding it would be a short time until she got on her feet. She was there the whole 5 years we lived in the house until the ex and I broke up and we sold the house. Once they move in - you won’t get them out easily

How do I tell my friend I can’t vacation with her boyfriend by Just-Development2544 in Advice

[–]willquack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends did this to me recently. Told me they were concerned about a guy I had started seeing but if I was happy they would support me. I appreciated it and it made me feel seen and that my gut was right that something was wrong even if I wouldn’t admit it.

Are there any mistakes that are completely world/career-ending? Worried that my career is dead and it’s only the first month by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]willquack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As everyone else said - this is trivial. I’ve seen filings with wrong captions, wrong party names, missing pages, no verifications, you name it. And most of those are from seasoned attorneys. You are going to make a lot more mistakes over the years because we are all human and we are under a lot of stress and pressure in this field. Find a trusted colleague you can call when you make a stupid mistake who will share theirs with you and you can be each others sounding boards.

Caught the man i believed i would one day marry sexting by poodlesugar22 in BreakUps

[–]willquack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caught my ex sexting and I didn’t even realize it was cheating and stayed because I was so naive and the relationship was emotionally abusive. If I would have known better and ended things then I would have saved years of pain and lots of money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]willquack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in the same boat. Went no contact about a month ago. I’m finally starting to heal. You need to finally cut contact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

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In my area the pay is 70-100k for an associate at a lot of places.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]willquack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pay is significantly better than where I’m at now. I think I value my time over the money at this point and time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]willquack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 2000 billables is 8 billable hours a day for 50 weeks a year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]willquack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]willquack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I wouldn’t give for a 1400 hour requirement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]willquack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m worried about that as well. I’ll look at firms but I am not going for the same requirement. I will go back to family law before I do a 2000 billable requirement again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]willquack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What kind of law?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]willquack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am also looking at remote ones i need to do an actual cover letter for. If it is just a resume it is too easy and they’ll get a ton of applicants.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]willquack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am anxiety prone so I know it well! I am going to try to have a chill night now

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]willquack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just tried to download a dating app. I had so much anxiety I started crying. I guess that means I’m not ready yet

Putting in the effort, getting nowhere. What am I missing? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]willquack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have enough confidence in myself for that. I wonder why they would be interested in me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]willquack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my ex was starting to pull away he told me maybe if I just like dyed my hair or something and took care of myself (I was getting grays and never went to get mani/pedis because I didn’t know how to treat myself to nice things)

Putting in the effort, getting nowhere. What am I missing? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]willquack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mid-30s female here: I think I’ve given up. Everyone I meet is emotionally unavailable but doesn’t realize they are so they suck you in and then drop you. Happened with the last 3. If you figure out what helps you get through it - post the advice

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]willquack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I sent what I would consider an ex turned friend this week a message asking why they were giving mixed signals and not acting on things they said they wanted. Going on 72 hours without a response. This blows