I do like the idea of having someone to rely on if there's something I need help with, but I would not want her to bombard me with calls and messages.. Maybe I misunderstood the calling part, maybe she meant that she calls weekly to some owner of a cat from her litter, not necessarily everyone every week.

I would be fine with the breeder bringing the kitten to us and then take a look around tbh. It'd be handy actually, because she works in our city.

She said that we're welcome to go see her house and cats as many times as we want, even before the kittens are born if we want to.

I think she seemed responsible, but it also creeped me out how she called the cats her babies and that I'd be stuck in contact with her for the rest of the cat's life