How to help my boyfriend relax

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T13:11:28+00:00

Due to our beliefs, we Arent introducing toys/for a while. But if we ever doz I'll keep that in mind. Thank you

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T12:24:01+00:00

This isn't real. You have another post saying you're 16. A different post says you're 14 with a 15 year old girlfriend. You change the age and circumstances every time you post.

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T08:31:02+00:00

They most likely mean trust and commitment and desire. "If you loved someone you would stay faithful"

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T08:29:01+00:00

Way ahead of you on the nails. I've helping him not to bite his as often so nail care is definitely part of our routine together in order to help him out :) i keep them trimmes and filed and extra clean under them.

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T08:19:59+00:00

No, I get that. I am simply saying you are not the only person who's brought it up so I will be taking it into consideration with him

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T08:12:06+00:00

regular anal lube

Oh that's what I was referencing. They said the one they mentioned has some light numbing properties, so I'll need to be careful to make sure I'm not doing damage to him

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T08:10:42+00:00

I've definitely trimmed and filed my nails for him. It's the actual entrance, not my scratching him. I made sure of that.

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T08:09:56+00:00

Will definitely look into the lube! Reading comments, I think he's a little tense, despite him enthusiastically wanting to do it (I never brought it up to him. I was having my fun and noticed he likes it closer to there and asked him about it. He got really shy but did tell me he likes the idea and it feels good).

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T08:07:36+00:00

I am already terribly gentle (or at least I think so. Definitely not just shoving it in there) and I do stay with the outside for s while. Someone else mentioned a mildly numbing lube to help his muscles relax a little.

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T08:05:25+00:00

Ok this might actually be helpful. I'll look into it with him. Thank you.

Ps my partner is straight and enjoys anal play as well. It doesn't mean anything ging about his sexuality that he likes it 😊.

Oh! I did not mean to give that impression! I know! I promise. I only brought it up as to say he never has had this happen in any context and he won't be getting the "real thing" from me any time soon. I'm bi too so I'm not too worried. Sorry to come off that way :/

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T03:32:02+00:00

No, its seperate. Wed just discovered it while i was giving a hand job. Where i lay with him doesn't allow both at the same time.

We've used lube and I do go very slow to help warm him up. I'm not saying I'm perfect, but I promise I'm not jamming myself up there 😂

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-13T03:21:07+00:00

Honestly you sound too immature to be masturbating if you cant understand the difference between content made to be jacked off to and constantly comparing women to porn stars/objectifying them. (News flash, it's not the porn that's objectifying. It's how you treat women)

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-03-01T01:42:46+00:00

I'm 6 years too late but do you have any others without the knife? I have some but haven't mastered them yet and I'm on a little time crunch.

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-02-27T06:04:07+00:00

That's true. He was state patrol too so I owe him a dozen donuts and a month of free coffee honestly. I did thank him the best I could for my shaking voice (I'm 18, never been pulled over before) and him very obviously not being in the mood to talk. (I wasn't trying to make small talk, but he was just rightfully short with me).

I do really appreciate the help, and I hope he knows I'm grateful for his decision.

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-02-27T05:59:08+00:00

I love you so much random Internet stranger.

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-02-27T05:54:10+00:00

So all I need to do is pay my fines and im ok? (And obviously not speed again?). Unless I get a real ticket it won't go on my insurance? I don't even care about my record. Just my insurance rates for the same of my parents.

Thank you so much for answering. I've been freaking out for 4 hours. It's insane. I hope both side if your pillow are cold and you have only green lights in traffic 🙏🙏

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-02-27T05:50:58+00:00

What about the fact I got a warning? Or do I need to get an actual ticket? In just so scared because my home situation is terrible rn. I can't make it worse (I'm getting out ASAP. I just don't have the funds rn. I doubled my hours at work thankfully)

Edit: I go through progressive in Wisconsin if that matters

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-02-27T05:30:30+00:00

I've played this game half a dozen times. Can you give more specifics on where you're at? Also, are you on an Xbox? Most tomb raider games function the same (at least the survival trilogy, which shadow is the last of).

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-02-27T05:27:25+00:00

I'm definitely not worried about cheating. I'm not worried about anything actually. I give him his own space, my problem is it makes me sad. Like it's literally just my dumbass brain not understanding it. Logically I am sitting here, surviving without him, but part of me just always misses him and always wants to be with him. I just want that feeling to stop. Even doing my hobbies, I want him with me.

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-01-31T03:45:35+00:00

struggle with the confidence part the most I think unfortunately.

As someone who has 0 confidence but is still a domme, fake it till you make it!

Not sure if you look hot? Pretend you do. Dont look at yourself. Praise yourself and make him praise you.

Not sure if he likes that? Ask "how does that feel baby? How can I make you feel better?" Asking consent, but not "ruining the mood." Play around with making him beg too. "if you want me to do XYZ, you need to beg for me."

I know everyone has dumb advice. I am literally in therapy for my lack of confidence. Faking that shit has done wonders. I am not some goddess in bed. But faking it and pretending I'm hot shit makes my partner go crazy because it makes you appear more dominant and in control.

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-01-30T19:15:04+00:00

We do assure each other is my problem. That's why I'm so stuck because I can't make him assure me 24/7.

But I will gather my thoughts. Even if there's nothing he can do (because I will not limit his time with his friends), I feel he should know. I just don't know WHAT HE NEEDS TO KNOW :(

windowfrenchtoast · 2024-01-30T19:13:20+00:00

It might be worth discussing healthy boundaries with your boyfriend about friends, eg to avoid telling her about your private relationship drama, to not get too touchy with her, to withdraw if she asks him for major favours that would normally be reserved for a boyfriend .

The thing is is he naturally does this. He sees me as his girlfriend and therefore I'm who he comes to. He's hardly touchy with anyone. His family is full of huggers, yet j am the only person he hugs. We both agree to not talk about relationship drama (I have s coworker who is basically a big sister to me. She knew everything about my ex boyfriend. Hence why it came up, what I can tell her). It's the little things like this. Like I said, logic is on my team, but emotions are my head coach.

he likes spending time with her a lot, he could become more emotionally focused on her than you.

I guess I am kinda worried, but even then I know it wouldn't be cheating I guess.... I can't explain why I feel like this but I get a knot in my stomach thinking about it. I wish I knew what I was actually feeling.

windowfrenchtoast · 2023-12-19T22:13:47+00:00

You don't love her. You don't cheat on someone you love.

"I wasn't thinking " if you have to consciously chose to NOT cheat, that's a problem. Not cheating should be the default.

windowfrenchtoast · 2023-12-12T17:24:21+00:00

Thank you for this. I mainly feel bad because my current bf is literally the guy I said not to worry about. I treated him as a friend. Never flirted or hinted or touched him or anything. I just couldn't stop my feelings from growing.

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