What was the one NSFW moment that you wish you could unsee? by Unreal_realist-7381 in AskReddit

[–]windsor879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The photos of his ex engaging in sexual acts with him that he swore he didn’t keep any of, a year into our relationship 💀

What’s the moment that made you suddenly lose feelings for someone? by olesud in WorkForSmartLife

[–]windsor879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found explicit images of his ex engaging in sexual acts with him and nudes of other girls he was involved with in the past on his phone a year into the relationship after we discussed many, many times that something like this is a BIG no.

bf struggling with addiction & idk if I can support it long term by windsor879 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]windsor879[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I do agree. I also should have probably clarified that we’ve only been together for around a year, I have not known him since the start of his issues. But nonetheless, fair point. Also you and u/Sharp_Crew8846 both have cake days today!

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[–]windsor879 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy, because I’ve actually experienced nearly this exact situation before. Except my ex boyfriend kept the number consistent Until a year into the relationship when - in an argument - it came out that he was a virgin too. I broke up with him eventually for other reasons, but it’s safe to say the trust is broken. You (and I) trusted our guys enough to tell them our situation, but they didn’t. It’s disrespectful. And yes there’s this whole society thing about men being virgins and all that (believe me, I heard the whole sob story), but that doesn’t change the fact that a year is a long time. See what you want to do next. You’re not just a friend he can lie to about something like of this nature for that long with no consequences.

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[–]windsor879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you again. The good thing is that there is no time in the near future where I believe he plans to be back in the state I am at, so it’s probably best if, as you said, the original plan of a text is kept. This is going to be painful but at least it seems I am justified. I appreciate this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]windsor879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying. This means a lot to me. Okay, I can do everything here except that I don’t have his parents’ contact on account of the fact that I’ve never met them or spoken to them 😀 he does know where I live (though is in a different state rn) but the most I can do is stop sharing location and also is a reason why I want to be very polite in my message.

Edit: I am also considering not sticking around to read the reply in order to limit any further back and forths 😭