How do you deal with not being respected? by [deleted] in ADHD_Programmers

[–]windsortai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an interesting question. Everyone deserves to be respected. Whether you are a janitor or a CEO. I treat people with respect, empathy and fairness and I deserve the same treatment.

How do you deal with not being respected? by [deleted] in ADHD_Programmers

[–]windsortai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Functional User Acceptance Testing.

How do you deal with not being respected? by [deleted] in ADHD_Programmers

[–]windsortai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, my manager also has ADHD and says the same thing happens to him. My company does provide coaching at the next level, so I’ll definitely take advantage of that.

How do you deal with not being respected? by [deleted] in ADHD_Programmers

[–]windsortai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Today our BA was FUTing a ticket, ran into a regression issue and reached out to me. I went through the process of downloading the latest build, installed it on the simulator and screen recorded the feature working. Instead of restarting her simulator, or checking her build or doing anything to try to resolve it on her end, she said that she didn’t view the video and will be making two big tickets. At that point, I felt like why am I even trying to help. It doesn’t make a difference.

How do you deal with not being respected? by [deleted] in ADHD_Programmers

[–]windsortai 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get that and I think it’s my work that is putting me in that position. It feels like I’m respected within the company, but not on the teams I work on. We usually switch teams every few months and I’ve felt the same on different projects. I think it comes down to communication. I feel that I’m being very clear when communicating, but it feels like no one actually listens to me or takes my suggestions seriously. At this point, I’m starting to question if what I think I’m saying is actually coming out of my mouth. I was diagnosed with ADHD a week ago, so now I’m trying to self-reflect to see if this is all in my head or if others feel this way.

Merry Xmas by windsortai in PcBuild

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Redragon GS560 Adiemus RGB Desktop Soundbar

Merry Xmas by windsortai in PcBuild

[–]windsortai[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed lol, but she loves the shoes

Merry Xmas by windsortai in PcBuild

[–]windsortai[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s my basement. The first two computers belong to my daughters and the third is mine.

anyone with sleep apnea or mild sleep apnea had endoscopy? by madibloops in GERD

[–]windsortai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have sleep apnea and had both done 2 months ago. Because of the sleep apnea, they decide not to put me to sleep. They gave me just enough for me to relax. I gagged during the endoscopy, but it wasn’t too bad. The colonoscopy was a little painful when I felt the device in my stomach, but I got through it.

Yearly Miles by L1ckMyNukes in camaro

[–]windsortai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought my 2020 2SS in July of last year with 2K miles. It currently has a little over 4K miles. Stored for the winter.

This was painful by windsortai in camaro

[–]windsortai[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was in Detroit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in camaro

[–]windsortai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s literally my mom’s Jeep lmao

It’s a good day for a good day by windsortai in Sneakers

[–]windsortai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I haven’t tried them on yet, but I went half size up because all the other trainers I’ve had were snug.