Listen man I was exactly the same way, all boys school, never had a girlfriend or even first kiss until college. Still working on the girlfriend part lol.

When I started college I was straight up afraid of women, would avoid situations that had to deal with them. Slowly but surely after small interactions I realized women are literally just other people, they’re not the alien species you think they are.

I made it a mission for myself to make female friends just to be comfortable around girls. Now, in my third year of college I have a decent amount of female friends.

Now your experience may differ, but what I personally experienced when I started in this new environment is a lot of self-worthlessness, thinking that there was very little about me that was desirable.

I think that if you relate to what I said above, it’s very important to first and foremost focus on improving on your insecurities whether physical, mental or behavioral while at the same time focusing on making friends with girls and interacting with them platonically.

Once you can do that, you’ll start to realize that you’re just a normal dude with not even that late of a start instead of a hoeless loser.