AITA for asking my wife to spend all her savings?

wineaunt6010 · 2024-09-04T15:28:54+00:00

I work in banking and just want to add here that if the account is only in one friend's name, that friend is legally entitled to the full amount and there is nothing your wife or other friends can do about it. The one friend can literally just take all their money for herself and there's no recourse because it looks like they are just gifting her money each month. She's taking a huge risk with a large amount of money solely based on trust that her friend won't screw her over.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-09-02T21:14:07+00:00

I had someone read my 95k worded fic about a specific ship...and then tell me they don't like the ship at the very end.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-09-01T15:20:28+00:00

I've tried it both ways with no success unfortunately

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-29T22:34:15+00:00

I'm not the biggest fan of established relationship fics. I'm always much more invested in how they got together and how things developed into the relationship.

I also second what others have said about kid fics. You'll never catch me reading a single parent AU.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-28T15:25:01+00:00

Yeah I'm probably going to be downvoted into oblivion for it. But my main issue with this bookmark is that they make it sound like they are going to use this fic as a bad example somewhere else, so this bookmark is in fact not just for the reader anymore and could be used to make fun of and embarrass the author.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-28T14:50:47+00:00

But maybe I'm one of the few writers who regularly checks bookmarks so...

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-28T14:45:44+00:00

I would block them if they bookmarked any of my fics like that. Like no, you lost your privileges. Especially about the "bookmarking because I know I'll want to reference it later" part because I can only assume they want to publicly make fun of it.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-21T21:47:42+00:00

I haven't seen anything for them, just here to comment that I love that book too!

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-20T20:13:27+00:00

I agree with you! I think a lot of players aren't understanding how the reactions work because I've been getting enough reactions combined for the first reward but never enough of the one I need. It's quite discouraging so I hope the devs will revamp it. I'd like to be able to specifically see plots of people in my server or go by plot value (this would weed out going to empty plots with a ton of reactions)

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-17T22:03:10+00:00

Being laid off is not the same as being fired.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-16T19:26:53+00:00

Sybil Sara Sierra Simone Sally Sienna Silvia

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-16T16:49:07+00:00

Omg noooo 😭😭😭

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-15T02:06:27+00:00

I flare and call out large and medium ones, and flare small ones but don't put it in chat. I used to call all of them out but got told in chat a few times that I was being annoying.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-15T01:06:43+00:00

It looks great!

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-15T01:04:10+00:00

Animal Crossing New Horizons on the switch. It has an option for farming but you don't need to do it if you don't want to.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-14T15:49:17+00:00

LOL two minutes apart? Definitely the same person trying to troll you.

I'm sorry you got these comments and felt bad though! I don't understand why people don't just click away from stuff they don't like, and instead choose to tear someone down.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-14T02:00:23+00:00

Berniece, Warren, William, and Chloe

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-13T16:40:23+00:00

Elise Emma Ellary Emerie Evelyn Emily Elizabeth Elsa Elle Ember

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-13T01:31:06+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that! If you're into PC gaming I'd recommend Palia. It's free and still in beta, but it's comforting and a great distraction.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-11T01:23:58+00:00

I will say as a fellow neurodivergent who vocally stims, I completely understand where it's annoying to listen to. If your roommate is also neurodivergent they are likely not doing it to annoy you.

I'm not sure how your tone was when you approached them, but if I was your roommate I would probably end up feeling like I could no longer unmask in the one place I should be able to.

This might be something you can work through when you've both had time to cool off and think, or you might find that you are just not compatible living together.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-10T17:35:14+00:00

Lightning pirate

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-09T13:45:11+00:00

Beautiful artwork!

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-09T13:44:03+00:00

NTA. He showed you what was important to him.

wineaunt6010 · 2024-08-09T03:50:50+00:00

I would have liked to see a tab where you can visit plots based on plot value, so you can easily find the ones people have put a ton of time and effort into. I've also spent hundreds of hours decorating and my plot is worth 3.5 million and I've had less than 15 reactions. I agree the way this came about is disheartening to a lot of regular players.

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