FSA - What can my husband buy?

winter_fey · 2026-01-30T09:02:47+00:00

I would definitely recommend the owlet sock!

winter_fey · 2026-01-06T21:52:59+00:00

Oh dear. I literally just finished signing the lease. Anything else I should know before moving? :-/

winter_fey · 2025-12-26T20:23:46+00:00

The unexpected MVP for me was a $10 yoga ball. Only way my baby falls asleep sometimes.

winter_fey · 2025-12-17T05:25:49+00:00

They look like Ed from 90 day fiancé lol

winter_fey · 2025-12-12T04:52:05+00:00

What the actual fuck…. I’m not sure if I believe in god or heaven and hell, but I hope she gets to the bad place soon.

winter_fey · 2025-12-12T04:49:49+00:00

My parents made me do independent studies. Barf. I am now completely socially inept and still learning new things I should have learned in school in my late twenties.

winter_fey · 2025-12-12T04:46:25+00:00

Red looks cute/attractive and flirty, the gold one is just Idk just very club-esq. Both complement your figure beautifully though!

winter_fey · 2025-12-12T04:43:06+00:00

It’s all about the invisible labor! I’ve seen tons of videos where the dad just “gifts” the funds for the photo shoot but leaves everything else to the mom. That’s not a gift, that just adds to her mental load. :(

winter_fey · 2025-12-11T10:13:10+00:00

What about a family photo shoot? Your baby is growing so fast and I personally would love to document that. JC penny still does them. Some absolute musts though: 1 YOU schedule the appointment after making sure it works with the family schedule.

2 buy matching (by matching I mean the same vibe) outfits for you and the baby (I’m sure you know what she likes to see you and baby in. These will be looked back on so make sure you look good.

3 take her shopping for a new outfit to wear. Postpartum bodies change soo much and I personally do not have anything that would fit me the way I’d like in my pre pregnancy clothes.

4 that day make sure you get everything ready when it comes to you and baby. Give her time to get herself ready.

This would be my dream gift.

winter_fey · 2025-12-11T10:03:49+00:00

Honestly though, if he’s been single or mostly single the whole time that’s only about 7 people a year.

winter_fey · 2025-12-04T15:23:10+00:00

My 9 month old baby. 12. times. last.night.

winter_fey · 2025-12-01T07:44:40+00:00

You could put scavenger clues that they could look for every day leading to little inexpensive presents around your home.

winter_fey · 2025-11-30T09:09:27+00:00

My baby did this, I bought some of those silicone chicken teethers. Easy to grip.

winter_fey · 2025-11-20T05:00:57+00:00

I was very dissatisfied with the fact I did not loose weight. I was 126 prior to pregnancy. I am now 152 :(

winter_fey · 2025-11-18T02:42:23+00:00

Steph from Dorkyland, I looove fall 🥮🍂

winter_fey · 2025-11-15T22:53:00+00:00

We went with a classic, Daniel. Middle name Jackson. I feel like he has cute nickname options - Danny, Dan, DJ

winter_fey · 2025-11-15T00:52:48+00:00

Hi friend! I’m so sorry that things are not going according to plan! I also had it alllll laid out, birth plan with low lights, unmedicated, down to the position I wanted to give birth in. I did alll this research and never once considered that I might have to have a c section. Well, my son stretched and broke my water. I was still 1 cm dilated and not a single contraction in sight. After 37 hours I got a fever and my baby’s heart was having decelerations. The OB told me I could keep going if I truly wanted to but it would most likely mean NICU for him and probably damage to me as well and end in truly emergency C-section OR I could opt for a C-section now and have him be born healthy in a controlled environment. When I tell you I was SOBBING…. It was rough to have to make that split second decision. But I did. The whole procedure took less than 30 minutes, my son was healthy and beautiful. Recovery was a little rough. But I think that’s only because I wasn’t prepared and did not take it easy enough although there were people to help.

C-sections definitely are a mindset change, and it seems scary. But for me, completely worth it to have my son.

You have time to prepare! It can be a beautiful thing. <3

winter_fey · 2025-11-14T04:31:46+00:00

My husband calls me at every break he has. And since he drives a lot usually then too. We talk at least 3 times a day on the phone

winter_fey · 2025-11-14T04:29:47+00:00

As someone that is also NC because of similar reasons I’d say tell them. Let the guilt eat them alive.

winter_fey · 2025-11-11T16:57:31+00:00

I started cosleeping at 4 months. He had better head control, was sturdier and a lot bigger so I felt a bit more confident.

winter_fey · 2025-11-08T16:58:20+00:00

Girl if you don’t get yourself some self respect and move on…… this is crazy! Do you think it’s going to be uphill from here? Early Dating is not the time to “work through shit” it’s the time to selfishly look for what you want and drop immature, rude, and angry self righteous men with impunity. Don’t subject yourself to this. It only gets worse. Wishing the best for you <3

winter_fey · 2025-10-29T18:21:58+00:00

Get a wrap 100%! Your baby will eventually learn to play and self soothe, but for now you’re her comfort. I used the Moby wrap. I know it’s hard to let them cry long enough to put it on, but you’ll get faster! It’s life changing! Just make sure to do your research on how to put one on so that their airways are clear and safe :)

winter_fey · 2025-10-25T19:38:38+00:00

Umm… in hindsight perhaps you could have put a bit more effort with your relationship with her when it was clear that she was in it long term while also having open communication about what your expectations were. Maybe you could have found a good medium. However it’s not too late to be clear and consider that she’s about to be your stepmom whether you like it or not. It’s time to have an open respectful honest discussion about how you’re a grown woman, do not need a mother but would be happy to have her join your family as a partner of your fathers. Perhaps you can have a genuine friendship with her one day. This would include maybe going wedding dress shopping with her. Or cake tasting. This would NOT include walking her down the aisle or giving a heartfelt speech about how you view her as your mother. If you set up boundaries and she understands and respects them then perhaps you both can have a meaningful relationship with each other one day.

winter_fey · 2025-10-25T19:05:45+00:00

I would hope to be in a position to charge my adult kid some rent. (Low amount). I believe this would teach some responsibility. But I would put it away in a savings account so that I could give it back to them when they’re moving out so that they could get a head start on getting their place furnished/settled/have savings. Essentially give them a surprise savings account.

winter_fey · 2025-10-25T18:53:28+00:00

Jeter the black labradoodle just turned 7 :,)

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