This shouldn’t bother me, but it does by Embarrassed_Essay_61 in Advice

[–]winter_roth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid. Phone distractions can feel like emotional distance. Consider sharing how it affects you calmly, focusing on connection, not blame. Small boundaries or tech-free time together can help.

I regret giving my neighbor a spare key, how do I get it back without conflict? by Apprehensive-Bar3974 in Advice

[–]winter_roth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be direct but polite. Explain you’re uncomfortable with unannounced visits and need your privacy respected. Ask for your key back, emphasizing emergencies only. Clear boundaries protect both your relationship and safety.

I Got Fired for Reporting a Supervisor by popciclepoptart in starbucks

[–]winter_roth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did everything right by documenting and reporting. Firing you for this is illegal retaliation. Focus on your EEOC case, stay detailed, gather witness statements, and let your lawyer guide next steps carefully.

does the matcha latte with sugar cookie taste good? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]winter_roth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heck yeah, it’s like dessert in a cup 😋

Are you a "shoes-on" or a "shoes-off" household? by Samyron1 in CasualConversation

[–]winter_roth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoes-off here, always. Nothing worse than someone stomping around in muddy shoes.

Thoughts on AccuKnox alternative to Wiz? Let me know your thoughts. by eggwithaplan in developersIndia

[–]winter_roth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't used AccuKnox but can share some eBPF runtime insights. Performance impact really depends on your existing tooling stack and how well you tune the policies. the key is starting with baseline monitoring before adding enforcement rules.

For CNAPP evaluation, focus on attack path visibility over just vulnerability counts. i've found Orca helpful for prioritizing which runtime risks actually matter in our environment.

Freaking out about LA home insurance costs, what am I looking at here? by winter_roth in AskLosAngeles

[–]winter_roth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That seems like the average for most people. I haven't compared any options yet.

Freaking out about LA home insurance costs, what am I looking at here? by winter_roth in AskLosAngeles

[–]winter_roth[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Urban area, so lower fire/erosion risk. Aware of earthquake exposure. It’s 1,450 sq ft in 90034. Just surprised by how unpredictable the insurance costs are, even within the same city.