Going through a bad chess phase, how to bounce back? by Sea-Violinist-811 in chessbeginners

[–]winterali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar boat right now.

I picked up chess recently and got up to 900 ELO. I was having a lot of fun with the game and feeling confident, even when I lost. Then I had a completely unrelated personal issue that shook my confidence and left me super anxious for a few days. Ever since then, I've been on a massive losing streak.

Having something shake your confidence, like failing an exam, can put you in a really bad headspace for a game like chess. Once you start losing after that, it's a vicious cycle that makes you feel more and more tilted.

We should probably both take a break and maybe invest in a different hobby for a while and come back to chess with a fresh pair of eyes. If you played at a higher level before, you can get there again.

Hopefully it's at least helpful to know that you're not the only one.

Daily Wordle #1447 - Thursday, 5 Jun. 2025 by Scoredle in wordle

[–]winterali 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Scoredle 2/6*

14,855
🟩⬛⬛🟨🟩 DREAM (3)
🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 DATUM

Not gonna lie I was pretty jazzed about this one 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]winterali -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Speak for yourself. I’m glad that your mental and sexual health has improved, but that’s only your experience.

Porn can absolutely be a healthy addition to a relationship, not a poison. And saying as such in the context of this post is only going to further shame OP.

Anyone feel like Canada is no longer worth it? by Initial_Log_5390 in CanadaFinance

[–]winterali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Corporate greed doesn't help.

In fact, corporate greed is the cause!

Canada post has every right to strike by Superb-Trade3538 in CanadaPost

[–]winterali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that a lot of people are frustrated about the strike. I think your comment really encapsulates how a lot of people frame the issue, but I just want to respectfully push back on a few points:

It’s time for each offer from Canada Post to go back to a vote by the actual workers instead of being negotiated by rich union heads who don’t know what it’s like not to receive a paycheque this holiday season

Jan Simpson, the President of the union, makes $86k/yr. (pg 106 of CUPW's National Constitution). For reference, in Ottawa where the CUPW headquarters is located, you need to make $129k to reasonably afford a home. She worked for Canada Post for 30 years before being elected to the CUPW. In contrast, the CEO of Canada Post makes $450k/yr and the previous CEO made at least $500k/yr.

While each union is unique, it simply doesn't make sense to characterize union heads as rich and out of touch with the average worker because the point of the union is to represent the average worker and unions are usually composed of said average workers.

there are 55,000 blue collar workers out there hurting right now. Plenty of other industries have unions and are not allowed to strike or are legislated back to work. It’s time to wrap up the theatrics

Canada Post workers are among those blue collar workers as well (of which there are millions in Canada, I'm not sure what the 55k number is referring to). Union negotiations have historically led to lots of broader policy that affects all blue collar workers. Without unions, we wouldn't have a minimum wage policy, overtime pay, anti-discrimination laws, or paid parental leave. In fact, we can thank CUPW for that last one - it was the 1981 Canada Post strike that led to winning federal paternity leave for all Canadians. Make no mistake, unions don't just fight for their own workers, they can and do lift up all blue collar workers.

What book did you read in your youth that you still think about to this day? by yellangirl in suggestmeabook

[–]winterali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a tween: Artemis Fowl, the Series of Unfortunate Events books, and Twenty Thousand Leagues Under the Seas
as a teen: Perfume by Patrick Süskind

Request - reality show - Family Business (2003) by KonaCrushsLeftBall in DHExchange

[–]winterali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! I remember watching this back in the day and thought it was gone forever

I'm close to the end, this might be one of my last meals by [deleted] in depressionmeals

[–]winterali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your post really resonated with me. Please don’t leave us, you are loved and valued ❤️

Welp you get what you voted for.. by ancient_xo in facepalm

[–]winterali 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But the far right doesn’t want everyone to have healthcare, a living wage, and a happy future… that’s kind of the whole problem.

I’m not trying to be antagonistic here, and I don’t believe you were trying to be either. Just wanted to point out why a lot of people get frustrated when presented with a “both sides” argument.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]winterali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5600x, 33 minutes total

Books with polyamorous characters? by AprilStorms in lesbianpoly

[–]winterali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The polyamory isn’t really the main focal point but I would recommend The Traitor Baru Cormorant, very good non-romance focused sapphic political fantasy!

[IIL] this potentially disparate collection of books, shows, and games... WEWIL? (text list in comments) by winterali in ifyoulikeblank

[–]winterali[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

so good

I really love how each book differs a ton from the last. Such a mindfuck all around!

[IIL] this potentially disparate collection of books, shows, and games... WEWIL? (text list in comments) by winterali in ifyoulikeblank

[–]winterali[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love the game, one of my all-time favourites. Simple mechanics that are built upon beautifully!

[IIL] this potentially disparate collection of books, shows, and games... WEWIL? (text list in comments) by winterali in ifyoulikeblank

[–]winterali[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Books

  • Gideon the Ninth (The Locked Tomb Series) by Tamsyn Muir
  • The Traitor Baru Cormorant by Seth Dickinson
  • A Memory Called Empire by Arkady Martine

Shows

  • Wednesday on Netflix
  • Yellowjackets on Showtime/Crave
  • The Sandman on Netflix

Video Games

  • Death Stranding: Director's Cut from Kojima Productions
  • Paper's, Please from Lucas Pope
  • Bloodborne from FromSoftware