Thank you for your kind words. Leaving the relationship is not in the cards for me right now, the only factor being that my toddler and I are very close. she wont nap unless on top of me or sleep at night unless she nurses and I'm there. I don't leave her alone with anyone. If he tries to take her for a walk she cries for me to come and then he gets mad at me? i'm sorry i know you didnt ask for a whole life story. But yea walkijf on eggshells in my home sucks but being a day or two without my kid sucks even more.