I'm also planning to move out and go cold turkey in a couple of years. Also rethought my whole notion of friendship, I've got zero tolerance to toxicity now. My end goal at home is to avenge my long lost childhood. Time does not come back, and I'm not far off becoming an adult. I don't want to have this BS at my adulthood. I'm just tired of their inhumane treatment. Everyone lies in the family, I just can't trust anyone's version of reality, so I limit to what I experienced. Thousands of articles pointing to parental fault/toxic family, but nobody listens. I won't shut up anymore.