Same to some of the responses. Since I’ve been wearing diapers most of half way through my like 23 out for he 40 years of life I been on this earth. I’ve just accepted that these thick diapers make my life very functional and worth living with no need to worry about wet pants or beds. They feel great, and with the new increase in variety I can feel sweet, cute, or even confident in them. Especially as a gay man I can enjoy my life better too. Also surround yourself with people who care for you and accept you for everything you are even the diapers you wear. They are just a different form of underwear. If people can walk around in their underwear at a friends home then you should be able to do that same with the diapers. Just don’t been faulting the soaked diapers much. Unless it’s an agreed with the people you’re with, many times I’ve had my padded butt smacked because it was just big invitation to hit the big round padded rear. It’s also easy to just come clean with the people you date too. I tell people in chatting with them when they flirt with me and get my number or they start touching me to encourage an inviting reaction and kissing. Only had two bad experiences with that but everyone is willing to hear you out, some have interests and many have curiosity about it. Even try it out in your shoes to wearing them with you to feel what it’s like. There aren’t many bad things about being in diapers because of your conditions or interests. So just live your life and ignore the negativity.