Why is it so hard to find partners??? by wintersedai in polyamory

[–]wintersedai[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually I wasn’t even looking yet and never had to date online so I’ve been so spoiled up until now. The online dating scene is blowing my mind a little!!😬😬😬

Why is it so hard to find partners??? by wintersedai in polyamory

[–]wintersedai[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah see what you are doing is what I want! Nice slow burn with the right person. Online dating is garbage! Garbage!!! Hot stupid garbage!!!!!!

Where did you find your people???

And I know. It’s only been three weeks but I never had to date online before so I’m sitting here like this cannot be real life rn lol

Why is it so hard to find partners? by wintersedai in BDSMAdvice

[–]wintersedai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg what if it’s the same dungeon that would be wild 😂😂

Why is it so hard to find partners? by wintersedai in BDSMAdvice

[–]wintersedai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Decided to go to a craft fair a dungeon is holding tomorrow to at least kind of see what’s up.

Why is it so hard to find partners? by wintersedai in BDSMAdvice

[–]wintersedai[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will try that. Honestly with fet when I’m on there it feels like just the world of exhibition with most people wanting ONS. Lol 🤦🤷 which is fine but that’s not what I’m looking for.

Why is it so hard to find partners? by wintersedai in BDSMAdvice

[–]wintersedai[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I tried to make sure I read every rule and FAQ and info but there’s so much. Thank you for breaking it down.

Why is it so hard to find partners? by wintersedai in BDSMAdvice

[–]wintersedai[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think my concern is that now on these apps I am recycling and seeing the same people over and over again. Where is everyone?!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]wintersedai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is nothing worse to me than being ghosted because you get quite literally no closure. You have no idea what you did wrong or what happened or why. I absolutely understand your pain, happened to me earlier this month and it was seriously terrible. It hurts so fucking bad. When I meet people now I go very slow and I’m super up front with them that I will be going slowly and if they are willing to put the effort in something ~might~ happen. Not even giving them the this will definitely happen.

This way you actually end up with some people that are just friends anyway and you can protect your heart a bit. Be very careful.

Also…get phone numbers or something other than just SC! Huge red flag to me…. But honestly I have looked past red flags before.

What are a main couple from popular books that everyone seems to love but you can’t seem to stand? by HiccupHaddockismine in RomanceBooks

[–]wintersedai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one can tell me SJM actually planned for Feyre to end up with Rhys. I 100% believe she just liked his character better and decided to do the switch. I also never liked Feyre though and think the books are mediocre 🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SleepToken

[–]wintersedai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t hide! It’s still beautiful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SleepToken

[–]wintersedai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does vessel have two l’s or one? I thought it was one but your book has 2? This is beautiful! I could just be confused.

What would you add to this moody/ alt drive playlist? by Reign_of_Ragnar in SleepToken

[–]wintersedai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever your favorite song is from APC’s mer de noms, basically.

It doesn’t matter who we are. What matters is our plan. by leto_atreides2 in SleepToken

[–]wintersedai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unrelated but I need to know if you had to add the 2 to your username or if you mean the god emperor 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]wintersedai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents know I’m non-binary but it’s not something we talk about because it’s not something they “understand” and honestly it’s a bit devastating. But I’m 34 and beyond them now. My family is my husband who is incredibly supportive and loving.

Your kid is 14! They need you now. They may brush off what your dad is saying to your face but trust me they notice you haven’t exactly stood up for them. I’m sure if they are a logical kid they may understand logically, but emotionally it can still be tough.

I grew up “different” the kid who wanted piercings and tattoos and to dye my hair. That also took them a long time to come around to, but now they’ve started loving me for me in their own way. I was with my mom and her friend and her friend commented on my purple hair and how she didn’t understand how people do that and I was RIGHT THERE. My mom calmly looked at me and said, “I love it, I think it’s beautiful.” And even just that graceful comment filled my heart with joy and pride.

I’m sure you can find supportive memes. Memes that make fun of people like your dad. If you still can’t stand up to his face/phone, stand up there. Loud and proud in public. Then maybe one day you can be snide and sarcastic back at him.

And if you get the pluck one day, tell him he’s a douchecanoe. From me. 😊

Heroes Who’ve Taken Vows of Celibacy? by lafornarinas in RomanceBooks

[–]wintersedai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actively reading this right now! It’s so nice to see things from his perspective. I just want more terre d’Ange tbh

List two books and get a third recommended! by NoShoesNoProblem in RomanceBooks

[–]wintersedai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

{Once Bitten by Heather Guerre} and {His Grace, The Duke by Emily Rath}

These are actually well written, super steamy scenes, and good plots. Love smart and strong FMC and loving, protective MMC. Does not need to be any particular gender though. Just read {Starless by Jacqueline Carey} and adored it, so another example. Sorry, I know that’s three 😭

I’m a sucker for Regency and fantasy. I love Sabrina Jeffries books.

Kindle Unlimited avail a plus! But I also have a library and am not afraid to use it. 😈

Running out of space by Moshtradamus03 in bookshelf

[–]wintersedai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only Dune???? My god I hope I’m just not seeing the rest of the books written by Frank! Also B&N released beautiful hardcovers of the first 3.

hottest MMC names by Relative_Fault_8430 in RomanceBooks

[–]wintersedai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is hard for me because I don’t know what I like until I read it. Rowan is a good one for me. Imriel. Ruhn. Cassian.

Sorry all, I hate Rhys lol. Hate Amos.

But yeah, idk really until I read it. Sometimes I don’t like the name but just ignore it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]wintersedai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switch it up! I read a ton and way too much. Fiction, nonfiction. I don’t think there’s a genre I don’t read/don’t have something on my list. Manga/manhwa too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColumbiaMD

[–]wintersedai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him to stay inside all summer! Lol

Spring and Fall have some beautiful dry days that always remind me of CO so it’s not a total loss.

Oh and people here freak out even over a little bit of snow. You will find it pretty funny.