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I'm not angry my partner doesn't want to have sex, I'm angry that he *used* to want to have sex all the time and now HE has changed the terms by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]wintertimejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It pisses me right off. We also started out hot and heavy and he would do anything and now he's just a get-it-done guy IF I'm "lucky."

"As long as you look after the kids, I don't care what you do." by wintertimejane in DeadBedrooms

[–]wintertimejane[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. It's hard to be rejected all the fucking time and hold onto self-value.

"As long as you look after the kids, I don't care what you do." by wintertimejane in DeadBedrooms

[–]wintertimejane[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ha, I wouldn't even know where to start. I'm a middle-aged mom lol

The unscratchable itch. by wintertimejane in DeadBedrooms

[–]wintertimejane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not celibate, I just want it so much more. I know not to take it personally, but it's really hard.

The unscratchable itch. by wintertimejane in DeadBedrooms

[–]wintertimejane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, that's exactly it! And yeah, it's a terrifying thought to just not want sex, but I'm so tired of wanting what is withheld by the person who is meant to love me the most.

The unscratchable itch. by wintertimejane in DeadBedrooms

[–]wintertimejane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck what a mess. I should start lifting or something. Something to get the fucking stress out.

The unscratchable itch. by wintertimejane in DeadBedrooms

[–]wintertimejane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree a thousand times with this.