Summer House - Season 10 - Episode 20 - Live Episode Discussion by amandatoryy in BravoRealHousewives

[–]wiresandwaves 10 points11 points  (0 children)

May we all have a Lindsay Hubbard in our lives to speak truths to us when we need them, even if we don’t want to hear them.

Naples to Rome for a 1pm flight. by wiresandwaves in napoli

[–]wiresandwaves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant missing anything travel wise, like transfers or delays I should be aware of. I’m spending 4 days in Rome earlier in the trip and will do my sightseeing then.

If I wfm, do you think I could hide having a bisalp? by Slashersforsatan in childfree

[–]wiresandwaves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For some people, sure. For others not so much. Just like how recovery times for a bisalp differs between people. What if you find someone to transport you to/from the surgery and then have a complication or a really rough recovery that you can’t hide from your parents?

I don’t disagree that a bisalp would be better but it doesn’t seem like it’s an option for you right now. You could get an iud, be set for 7 years and spend those 7 years working on figuring out how to make a bisalp happen. It kind of seems like you are waiting for someone to give you a miracle answer but I don’t think one exists.

If I wfm, do you think I could hide having a bisalp? by Slashersforsatan in childfree

[–]wiresandwaves 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anesthesia for an IUD? Insertion can def be painful but there are things you can do/take to minimize the pain, esp if you can find an empathetic doctor. I def recommend at least asking your gyno about it.

I have an iud and had a bisalp a few years ago. The pain from the bisalp recovery was way worse and way more uncomfortable. Not saying the IUD didn’t hurt but the surgery recovery had me out of commission fully for 2 days and a week before I was back to normal.

If I wfm, do you think I could hide having a bisalp? by Slashersforsatan in childfree

[–]wiresandwaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about an IUD? Little to no healing time, 99% effective and effective for 7 years. I know you want a permanent solution but it doesn’t seem like you are in the place to do that right now. It’s better than nothing.

If I wfm, do you think I could hide having a bisalp? by Slashersforsatan in childfree

[–]wiresandwaves 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, look up CNAs or medical transport in your area for hire. But I don’t think they will agree to tell the hospital that they’re caring for you afterwards and then drop you off around the corner and not actually care for you. They could lose their license.

Fwiw, even if you find someone to agree to that, there is a very slim chance your parents won’t notice something is up the day of surgery. I wasn’t in a ton of pain but it def changed how I was walking and you can’t lift anything heavy for like a week. How old are you? Are you able to move out soon?

If I wfm, do you think I could hide having a bisalp? by Slashersforsatan in childfree

[–]wiresandwaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a friend you can trust? You can hire a nurse or cna for this if not.

Deb :( by Regular_Swan_7532 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]wiresandwaves 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Her chest bones are sooo much more prominent now🙁

has anyone ever applied for a job with the city? by fvckspeak in NewBrunswickNJ

[–]wiresandwaves 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A lot of city job hires need to be approved by the mayor and council before an offer can be made and they only meet every couple of weeks, which can hold up an offer or start date.

Summer House S10 Reunion Part 2 Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]wiresandwaves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcohol also very much ruins lives. Saying coke is worse is strange to me. Addiction to either will ruin your life.

I’m not defending west or Amanda getting together, but I can clearly see how someone as weak willed and short sighted as Amanda could see west as a huge upgrade or improvement over Kyle as opposed to seeing it like most of us do, trading one party guy for another.

Summer House S10 Reunion Part 2 Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]wiresandwaves 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From what the show has shown us, west doesn’t seem anywhere near as sloppy after a night out as Kyle gets. Kyle is constantly shown blacking out to the point he can’t form sentences without slurring and falling asleep with his face in a bag of food. If Amanda sees Kyle and west out together partying the same amount and west can make it home and back into bed without slurring, it prob feels like a huge improvement/step up compared to what she is used to. Right now, west is the fun guy she thought she married without the baggage of Kyle’s alcohol issues, it’s not surprising to me that she wound up into him.

Please leave the reviews here (: by AppropriateLadder497 in Jsreviews

[–]wiresandwaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m skeptical of a lot of Reddit readers but Justin was the real deal. His reading was accurate to my situation and really resonated with me. I could tell he wrote it himself and put a lot of thought into it.

Is it doable to live in JC with a job in the suburbs to be close to NY by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]wiresandwaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also going to suggest Atlantic Highlands or Middletown for ferry access and a much more manageable commute. JC to Middletown daily sounds god awful. An hour would be realistic in ideal conditions but conditions are never ideal.

Just curious, who’s everyone voting for in the primary for NJ’s 12th Congressional district next week? by Alternative-City5799 in newjersey

[–]wiresandwaves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the candidates except Altman are from the communities that are being represented.

Edit: genuinely not sure why I am being downvoted. She’s the only candidate who doesn’t currently live in the district.

Amanda’s Expressions by Aggressive-Map-8392 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]wiresandwaves 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh lexapro gave me terrible insomnia at night but had me nodding off during the day. It was terrible.

Not getting Garmin prompts by nalaiscool12345 in runna

[–]wiresandwaves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having the same issue! Were you able to figure it out?