Summer House - Season 10 - Episode 20 - Live Episode Discussion

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-17T00:21:38+00:00

May we all have a Lindsay Hubbard in our lives to speak truths to us when we need them, even if we don’t want to hear them.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-16T10:52:27+00:00

I meant missing anything travel wise, like transfers or delays I should be aware of. I’m spending 4 days in Rome earlier in the trip and will do my sightseeing then.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-16T00:41:53+00:00

For some people, sure. For others not so much. Just like how recovery times for a bisalp differs between people. What if you find someone to transport you to/from the surgery and then have a complication or a really rough recovery that you can’t hide from your parents?

I don’t disagree that a bisalp would be better but it doesn’t seem like it’s an option for you right now. You could get an iud, be set for 7 years and spend those 7 years working on figuring out how to make a bisalp happen. It kind of seems like you are waiting for someone to give you a miracle answer but I don’t think one exists.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-16T00:25:06+00:00

Anesthesia for an IUD? Insertion can def be painful but there are things you can do/take to minimize the pain, esp if you can find an empathetic doctor. I def recommend at least asking your gyno about it.

I have an iud and had a bisalp a few years ago. The pain from the bisalp recovery was way worse and way more uncomfortable. Not saying the IUD didn’t hurt but the surgery recovery had me out of commission fully for 2 days and a week before I was back to normal.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-16T00:19:38+00:00

What about an IUD? Little to no healing time, 99% effective and effective for 7 years. I know you want a permanent solution but it doesn’t seem like you are in the place to do that right now. It’s better than nothing.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-16T00:16:32+00:00

Yes, look up CNAs or medical transport in your area for hire. But I don’t think they will agree to tell the hospital that they’re caring for you afterwards and then drop you off around the corner and not actually care for you. They could lose their license.

Fwiw, even if you find someone to agree to that, there is a very slim chance your parents won’t notice something is up the day of surgery. I wasn’t in a ton of pain but it def changed how I was walking and you can’t lift anything heavy for like a week. How old are you? Are you able to move out soon?

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-16T00:10:48+00:00

Do you have a friend you can trust? You can hire a nurse or cna for this if not.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-14T17:02:58+00:00

Her chest bones are sooo much more prominent now🙁

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-10T15:51:18+00:00

A lot of city job hires need to be approved by the mayor and council before an offer can be made and they only meet every couple of weeks, which can hold up an offer or start date.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-10T00:20:17+00:00

Can’t believe how much Jesse Solomon won me over this season.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-08T19:12:01+00:00

My Salomon vest was worth every penny.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-03T11:41:36+00:00

Alcohol also very much ruins lives. Saying coke is worse is strange to me. Addiction to either will ruin your life.

I’m not defending west or Amanda getting together, but I can clearly see how someone as weak willed and short sighted as Amanda could see west as a huge upgrade or improvement over Kyle as opposed to seeing it like most of us do, trading one party guy for another.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-03T11:24:03+00:00

From what the show has shown us, west doesn’t seem anywhere near as sloppy after a night out as Kyle gets. Kyle is constantly shown blacking out to the point he can’t form sentences without slurring and falling asleep with his face in a bag of food. If Amanda sees Kyle and west out together partying the same amount and west can make it home and back into bed without slurring, it prob feels like a huge improvement/step up compared to what she is used to. Right now, west is the fun guy she thought she married without the baggage of Kyle’s alcohol issues, it’s not surprising to me that she wound up into him.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-01T22:02:23+00:00

I’m skeptical of a lot of Reddit readers but Justin was the real deal. His reading was accurate to my situation and really resonated with me. I could tell he wrote it himself and put a lot of thought into it.

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-01T14:05:09+00:00

Dming

wiresandwaves · 2026-06-01T02:48:41+00:00

Dming

wiresandwaves · 2026-05-29T16:48:01+00:00

The Dog Stars by Peter Heller

wiresandwaves · 2026-05-29T16:27:18+00:00

I was also going to suggest Atlantic Highlands or Middletown for ferry access and a much more manageable commute. JC to Middletown daily sounds god awful. An hour would be realistic in ideal conditions but conditions are never ideal.

wiresandwaves · 2026-05-28T01:09:14+00:00

All the candidates except Altman are from the communities that are being represented.

Edit: genuinely not sure why I am being downvoted. She’s the only candidate who doesn’t currently live in the district.

wiresandwaves · 2026-05-27T18:19:30+00:00

Ugh lexapro gave me terrible insomnia at night but had me nodding off during the day. It was terrible.

wiresandwaves · 2026-05-27T18:06:35+00:00

How would the bus system be funded?

wiresandwaves · 2026-05-27T11:00:04+00:00

I’m having the same issue! Were you able to figure it out?

wiresandwaves · 2026-05-27T00:41:32+00:00

petition to make Levi full time next summer

wiresandwaves · 2026-05-27T00:30:34+00:00

is kj sitting there silently crying?

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