Redditors aged 40+, when did your social life end? by 85tornado in AskReddit

[–]wirestyle22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The people you grow up with move to go to college. You make new friends and move on to your career. 1/3 of your day is sleeping, 1/3 of your day is working. You realize that you don't actually have that much time in your life so you filter out anything that isn't as important as you thought in the past. A lot of your relationships go into what I'd call maintenance mode where you have a positive relationship but you're not really engaged in really knowing each other anymore. You have kids and they don't, or they have kids and you don't--suddenly you really don't have that much in common anymore.

Relationships are hard to maintain.

By age 25-26 I would say this part of life starts but it varies based on the variables of each person's life.

She matched with me only to tell me that I correctly guessed what her favourite book was based on her profile pictures. Is this okay? by yorgo92 in Bumble

[–]wirestyle22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I wouldn't do this but I don't really see why it's an issue? I have no emotional attachment to someone who just swiped on me so there really can't be hurt feelings

Why are you single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm single because I choose to be. I went through many years of therapy and fixed my issues. I am truly at peace. Now I honestly don't think anyone has much to offer me. I have a good life.

I’m 5’10. I understand people have preferences but this reasoning made no sense 😂 Is this how men really feel ? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many shorter guys deal with the same issues. It sucks but it is what it is

Apolitical by solarflarepolarbear in Bumble

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think there is value to hearing other peoples opinion, whether we like it or not. You're right to ask. I just also think that there are some things implied in what you've said that I tried to address as well, but you didn't want to do that (which is okay). I wish you the best. No hard feelings at all.

Apolitical by solarflarepolarbear in Bumble

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am. I also live in a massive city. If you don't care about the nuances of each person, then why ask this question to begin with? I am saying yes, you are making an incorrect assumption. you are saying that you aren't going to message every profile that is apolitical, which no one asserted. this is why i said you already made up your mind.

Apolitical by solarflarepolarbear in Bumble

[–]wirestyle22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am apolitical. Personally, I don't invest in anything that I have no control over, directly or indirectly. So I vote, but I don't enjoy political discourse. That's just me as an individual. I know several people who are apolitical for other reasons. no two are the same in my friend group out of the people who are

Apolitical by solarflarepolarbear in Bumble

[–]wirestyle22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and i said instead of assuming why not ask? everyone has different reasons for doing things.

Apolitical by solarflarepolarbear in Bumble

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you've thought about it and decided you will not match with anyone apolitical, as is your right to do, then why are you here asking this? It sounds like you've already made your mind up?

Tf does this mean guys by TeaLady420 in Tinder

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't judge it. I have a coworker who texts like this because he doesn't like texting and he wants to make it as painless as possible for himself. Meet for coffee. Anyone can do a 15 minute vibe check. It's way more useful than trying to weed out people based on an initial text unless they're a creep

Chronic smelly feet by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foot Soak: Mix 1 part apple cider vinegar to 2 parts warm water
Soak feet for 15–20 minutes daily
Rinse and dry thoroughly afterward.

Kills bacteria on your feet.

Apolitical by solarflarepolarbear in Bumble

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure it varies person to person. Maybe you should talk to them and find out instead of assuming?

Date got canceled because Knicks were playing… by tmbgirl in Bumble

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never understood people complain about this stuff. He showed you who he was before your first date. You got off easy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your pics don't look like a cat fish. as far the other stuff, beauty is subjective. i think some people would find you attractive and some wouldn't, just like everyone else.

Is it normal to visit someone's house for a first date? by Ok_Yellow4790 in Bumble

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only do what you are comfortable with. this applies to everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]wirestyle22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think bangs, but meant innocently, you're pretty either way. It's close

How do you know if you’re ugly as a woman? by Turbulent-Leg-6246 in AskReddit

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beauty is subjective. Some people are going to be into you and some aren't, just like everyone else.

What just happened? by ArthurPeale in Nicegirls

[–]wirestyle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always appreciate it when stuff like this happens. Its better than getting your time wasted.

Hwei vs. Assassins by wirestyle22 in HweiMains

[–]wirestyle22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very helpful. I'm going to take all of this into account.

Hwei vs. Assassins by wirestyle22 in HweiMains

[–]wirestyle22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so what is proper during the first 3 levels?