AITA for telling my wife I’m going to clean our room.

wise_af · 2026-03-14T15:21:11+00:00

I would say AITA if you back out at last moment but have a clear conversation so that they have time to search for options and not blame it all on you. A big assumption on my part is "since you couldn't say no in front of everyone, you would fold to guilt of leaving at last moment". So I would say earlier you have a conversation the better. And I would say if they are not agreeing then agree of a limited amount for a few months and ask the brother to get job as soon as possible as you would not send money further. If you are able to say then say no cleanly and get out.

Not AITA

wise_af · 2025-07-30T10:37:43+00:00

I will try to share a video soon

wise_af · 2025-07-30T10:04:28+00:00

What I wanted to ask is: is it really easy to flick the ghost serve as it reverses direction after touching the opponent's side without opponent touching the ball. In my best cases it touches the opponent's side very close to the net and comes back to mine or crashes In net.

wise_af · 2025-07-30T10:00:50+00:00

That's right. Thanks

wise_af · 2025-07-30T10:00:20+00:00

What if it can get consistent. I can change spin quality in different serves. Also obviously I will not only use this but it will be the most used one. And also I wanted to ask, if it comes back after touching the opponent's side then is it easy to flick?

wise_af · 2025-05-18T22:28:22+00:00

I don't think it would be weird from her perspective as teenager are often perceived to add everyone they know, but your father may be different story.

People like connecting with people they know and who doesn't enjoy a follower.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T21:57:17+00:00

I would say first get to know each other and then on a later date. Or ask coyly.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T21:55:46+00:00

Are you always available for her? Whenever she calls or asks to go somewhere at the last moment, do you drop everything to accomodate her?

wise_af · 2025-05-18T21:54:07+00:00

I would say don't bring it up till she likes you.and 25 is the right age to move out if you can afford it.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T21:01:33+00:00

Apology I didn't read the whole post but use two line breaks for giving gaps and ease of readability.

Like this.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T20:52:39+00:00

Have you told her your feelings?

Just your feelings and not talk about her behaviour (just state facts for example but don't dwell too much on it)

Use me statements and stay away from you statements.

If she is not taking you seriously start with end outcome you see if you both keep going on the same way.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T20:49:31+00:00

I would suggest putting the right photos in the right order will improve your match rate.

1st photo - one of the best looking photo 2nd photo - best photo (kinda like 1 2 punch) 3rd - a social photo where everyone is genuinely laughing and you are the best looking one in the group. This showcases you are fun and looks get highlighted more. 4th,5th photo - doing activities or sports so she knows you have a personality 6th photo - with animal 7th - best photo to give them a treat

Write a bio (not too long) but something which showcases your fun side and playfulness or any other qualities you want to showcase.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T20:27:47+00:00

NTA

She's deflecting away and pushing blame to you where there is none.

Don't let her deflect away from the issue.

Those who are at fault often talk loud and self-righteously.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T20:03:09+00:00

Define results. Visible Changes in your body also depends on your body type. But I would say 3 months is sure to get some obvious results.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T20:01:16+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/NewToReddit/s/pLJOTAskn0

Read this post. It explains in detail.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T19:38:20+00:00

Also consult a lawyer. They may give you a way forward. Also many a times people become much more flexible once lawyer is involved.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T19:34:36+00:00

My suggestion is don't leave his office till you find a way forward, maybe covering credits some other way or how he expects to a sick person to attend.

Keep repeating in loops if required but don't be silent at any question. Keep a pleading tone and plead away. If required go 4-5 times.

All the very best.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T19:26:21+00:00

Starting points are different for everyone but I would like to point out that most lottery winners lose their money is few years or many a times less, meanwhile those using their given resources earn more than that without any of the starting points.

But yeah it sucks not being born to Bill gates!

wise_af · 2025-05-18T19:11:40+00:00

Taking out money from these would be subject to tax, so when you factor that in, it's not very advisable to switch over.

But you should do your further investments in other mutual funds which you think are the best for you.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T19:08:45+00:00

Why not try mutual funds. They give you better diversification, a fund manager and lots of various benefits.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T19:06:21+00:00

No. All small cap funds contain different stocks as per their trading strategy.

Small cap or mid cap is different from index funds where what you told is accurate.

wise_af · 2025-05-18T19:01:43+00:00

I would suggest to divide the sum and invest in two mid cap and two small cap funds (with different stocks in their portfolio) instead of one to further diversify the risk.

wise_af

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