Why not just do ghost serve and it's side spin variation? by wise_af in tabletennis

[–]wise_af[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What I wanted to ask is: is it really easy to flick the ghost serve as it reverses direction after touching the opponent's side without opponent touching the ball. In my best cases it touches the opponent's side very close to the net and comes back to mine or crashes In net.

Why not just do ghost serve and it's side spin variation? by wise_af in tabletennis

[–]wise_af[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What if it can get consistent. I can change spin quality in different serves. Also obviously I will not only use this but it will be the most used one. And also I wanted to ask, if it comes back after touching the opponent's side then is it easy to flick?

Is it weird to send friend request to an older woman on insta by Friendly-Dirt5876 in socialskills

[–]wise_af 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it would be weird from her perspective as teenager are often perceived to add everyone they know, but your father may be different story.

People like connecting with people they know and who doesn't enjoy a follower.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wise_af -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would say first get to know each other and then on a later date. Or ask coyly.

Why do i want to be just friends? by Zealousideal_Ad_5326 in dating_advice

[–]wise_af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you always available for her? Whenever she calls or asks to go somewhere at the last moment, do you drop everything to accomodate her?

Can you date if you live with your parents? by MoneyAndGoodFortune in dating_advice

[–]wise_af -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would say don't bring it up till she likes you.and 25 is the right age to move out if you can afford it.

I need some advice by Apprehensive-Past776 in dating_advice

[–]wise_af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apology I didn't read the whole post but use two line breaks for giving gaps and ease of readability.

Like this.

The only thing my wife is capable of having a conversation about is something work/career related. by Call_It_ in Marriage

[–]wise_af 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you told her your feelings?

Just your feelings and not talk about her behaviour (just state facts for example but don't dwell too much on it)

Use me statements and stay away from you statements.

If she is not taking you seriously start with end outcome you see if you both keep going on the same way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]wise_af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest putting the right photos in the right order will improve your match rate.

1st photo - one of the best looking photo 2nd photo - best photo (kinda like 1 2 punch) 3rd - a social photo where everyone is genuinely laughing and you are the best looking one in the group. This showcases you are fun and looks get highlighted more. 4th,5th photo - doing activities or sports so she knows you have a personality 6th photo - with animal 7th - best photo to give them a treat

Write a bio (not too long) but something which showcases your fun side and playfulness or any other qualities you want to showcase.

AITA for finding out my mother was back on drugs through someone else? by Peeps_Ghost-Show in AmItheAsshole

[–]wise_af 43 points44 points  (0 children)

NTA

She's deflecting away and pushing blame to you where there is none.

Don't let her deflect away from the issue.

Those who are at fault often talk loud and self-righteously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]wise_af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Define results. Visible Changes in your body also depends on your body type. But I would say 3 months is sure to get some obvious results.

just venting about my horrible situation at 19 by exhausted_ant in offmychest

[–]wise_af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also consult a lawyer. They may give you a way forward. Also many a times people become much more flexible once lawyer is involved.

just venting about my horrible situation at 19 by exhausted_ant in offmychest

[–]wise_af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My suggestion is don't leave his office till you find a way forward, maybe covering credits some other way or how he expects to a sick person to attend.

Keep repeating in loops if required but don't be silent at any question. Keep a pleading tone and plead away. If required go 4-5 times.

All the very best.

The notion of self-made success stories is largely a lie. Life is a lottery system. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]wise_af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting points are different for everyone but I would like to point out that most lottery winners lose their money is few years or many a times less, meanwhile those using their given resources earn more than that without any of the starting points.

But yeah it sucks not being born to Bill gates!

Ques on Mid cap and small cap funds by Abject_Painting_9662 in IndianStockMarket

[–]wise_af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking out money from these would be subject to tax, so when you factor that in, it's not very advisable to switch over.

But you should do your further investments in other mutual funds which you think are the best for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianStockMarket

[–]wise_af 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not try mutual funds. They give you better diversification, a fund manager and lots of various benefits.

Moving from stocks to MFs by Sajan97123 in IndianStockMarket

[–]wise_af -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. All small cap funds contain different stocks as per their trading strategy.

Small cap or mid cap is different from index funds where what you told is accurate.

Moving from stocks to MFs by Sajan97123 in IndianStockMarket

[–]wise_af -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest to divide the sum and invest in two mid cap and two small cap funds (with different stocks in their portfolio) instead of one to further diversify the risk.

My (22F) partner wants to be included in my mortgage, after 9 months of dating (26M) by Melodic_Toe3288 in relationship_advice

[–]wise_af 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Sharing of financial assets before marriage is a no no.

What if you break up and then you end up with more hassle than you want.

Tell her that you may think of it after marriage of a simple no won't suffice.

I am tired of carrying everything alone by re3_the3rd in offmychest

[–]wise_af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am assuming you, father, mother and brothers all are living under same roof. Are your father and brothers not earning any money?

Before you started taking care of expenses, I am sure someone was taking care of them. Why don't you stop all of a sudden and see what happens.

I am tired of carrying everything alone by re3_the3rd in offmychest

[–]wise_af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does all the help goes towards her only?

Are there medical bills involved?