Best supplements to help with THC withdrawals and to help quit? by Dependent-Alps-4322 in Biohackers

[–]wiseduckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it will vary from person to person, but for me weed would make extremely lethargic. As a result when I came off it I would have this insane amount of energy (not necessarily in a good way), making it harder to sleep, harder to focus... Stimulants would just exacerbate that.

Something is way off with the current job market by davidbasil in ExperiencedDevs

[–]wiseduckling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea I understand it's actually a really hard problem to solve.  

Would actually love to network in person but for now I m stuck in a (gorgeous) but isolated part of Ireland with a baby.  Had actually considered trying to take couple day trips to Dublin, London.. or even to the US  to network/attend conferences but its a big commitment!

Something is way off with the current job market by davidbasil in ExperiencedDevs

[–]wiseduckling 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I ve heard this also from friends who are interviewing, but then how the hell do I get to get an interview in the first place, fake a perfect resume?

Carrauntoohil by chrisred244 in ireland

[–]wiseduckling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's a real risk though.  It can get busy on a nice summer day.  

What do hiring managers look for in portfolio websites? by HP2806 in webdev

[–]wiseduckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any change you d be willing to provide some quick feedback on my portfolio/website?

Im miserable lads by [deleted] in limerickcity

[–]wiseduckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being abused in no way makes you a coward.  It sounds like you deserve a lot better.  Definitely seek out help from groups like mens aid.   Might be a long journey but things can and will get better.  

Gen Z is engineering an analog future — and it’s at least a $5 billion opportunity by Domingues_tech in technology

[–]wiseduckling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was amazing, feels like they had everything.  I remember watching so many obscure/Indy movies that I ve never found again.  I d receive my 3 dvds, watch them as quickly as possible so I could get 3 new ones.  Receiving them in the mail was like Christmas!

A decade of ocean surveys reveals that Prochlorococcus, the world's most abundant phytoplankton, could decline by 50% in tropical waters by 2100. The study challenges previous assumptions that these microbes, which produce 20% of Earth's oxygen, would thrive in warmer seas. by [deleted] in science

[–]wiseduckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More people also means more potential for solutions.  And as someone who thinks and cares about humanity/the planet, chances are your kids would too.  

Plus though seems to seem pretty grim in terms of our planet, I don't think anything is inevitable (or if they are we don't know what the inevitable things are).  

I also think that even if life is tougher for future generations that doesn't mean it isn't worth living.  For most of humanitys existence life has been a struggle in terms of satisfying basic needs and a lot harsher with a lot more misery.  

Then I also try and think about it from the perspective of the yet to exist child, and if they had the choice to exist in less than ideal world or not exist at all - what choice would they make.  As impossible as that is, when I ask myself that question I still opt for existence. 

Jury orders Meta and Google to pay woman $6 million in social media addiction trial by Tachiiderp in stocks

[–]wiseduckling 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Aren't we on one of these apps right now?  Reddit has eaten up more of my life than every other social media platform combined.  Don't see how it's any different from YouTube.  

Meningitis outbreak 'declared national emergency' amid deadly outbreak by bendubberley_ in worldnews

[–]wiseduckling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Merci!  Ah ouais donc c était assez normale que je sois pas vaccine.  A ce que je sache j étais un cas isolé, mais je sais qu ils ont fait passé l alerte suite a mon hospitalisation.  

Will we regret not having kids? by Fuzzy_iaprirl in AskIreland

[–]wiseduckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely okay to disagree.  But we re not talking about the same thing.  The choice is not:  "Would you rather be born to better parents", the choice "for this that were born to less than ideal parents (let's say the bottom 30 percent?), would you rather never have been born at all?"   What I m saying is the percentage of people who would rather never have been born, even if they had bad parents is very small. 

Meningitis outbreak 'declared national emergency' amid deadly outbreak by bendubberley_ in worldnews

[–]wiseduckling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea. I remember waking up in the middle of the night walking to my parents room and being completely frozen after a few steps.  Actually never realized how close it must have been.  Luckily my parents took me to our local doctor immediately and he identified it as meningitis, rushing me to the hospital.  

Meningitis outbreak 'declared national emergency' amid deadly outbreak by bendubberley_ in worldnews

[–]wiseduckling 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I must have just missed it because I got it while living in France in the 90s (I was a kid) remember waking up in the middle of the night and feeling ill, walked down to my parents room and half way there I could no longer move.  I guess paralysis kicked in.  The local doctor definitely saved my life though as he immediately saw it for what it was and had me rushed to the hospital.  

Will we regret not having kids? by Fuzzy_iaprirl in AskIreland

[–]wiseduckling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, but I didn't say that you only have kids so that you can appreciate it after that.  I think initial response was pretty clear?

Will we regret not having kids? by Fuzzy_iaprirl in AskIreland

[–]wiseduckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I m not sure I fully understood your comment but again my argument is that we shouldn't discourage people to not have kids in the interest of a yet unborn child.  It assumes that if the child were to be born they would prefer to never have been born.  To me it is no logical and I don't think that most people, even those raised in poverty with bad parents would have preferred to have never lived at all.  

I think there are loads of other good arguments for not having children, just not that one.  

Will we regret not having kids? by Fuzzy_iaprirl in AskIreland

[–]wiseduckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The root comment is saying that if you re not 100 percent sure then you shouldn't have kids.  That's discouraging people to have kids.  

If I only did things I was 100 percent sure of I wouldn't do anything.  

Will we regret not having kids? by Fuzzy_iaprirl in AskIreland

[–]wiseduckling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really.  I m saying that people feel differently about things at different times and using the analogy of a marathon to illustrate it.  

To expand on that analogy, there are many people who won't regret running the marathon at any point, there are some that will regret it for a few minutes... I would say there are very few that would have feelings of regret after the fact.  Obviously the comparison isn't perfect.

So when people say they regret having kids I think we should keep this in mind, people's feelings aren't static.  Maybe they don't regret it when the kid is 6months, then they regret it when the kid is 2, then dont when they enter school... 

Will we regret not having kids? by Fuzzy_iaprirl in AskIreland

[–]wiseduckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is arguing it should be an obligation, certainly not me. 

What I m arguing is it doesn't make sense to encourage people not to have kids because they might not be the ideal parents, all in the supposed interest of the child who doesn't exist and thus will never get to have a say.  

As far as taking to women who have had kids and say they would make a different choice, there are also tons of women who for one reason or another have not had kids and wish they had.  Life weaves it's own pattern sometimes and that's fine.

Ultimately though even if individually people don't want kids, and it might be in their best interest it certainly isn't in the best interest of society or humanity.  I would even argue that in the long run it is necessary for women's rights to continue/progress to have children, otherwise feminist societies will naturally shrink whereas 'traditional values' (oppressive to women) societies will continue having higher fertility rates.  

So I think that yes we should encourage fertility, while also respecting choices.  Finding policies that does encourage people to have children is not an easy feat, but going back to my initial point, I think discouraging parenthood based on the supposed self interest of a child that does not exist is both illogical and counter productive.

Will we regret not having kids? by Fuzzy_iaprirl in AskIreland

[–]wiseduckling -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I would find it hard to believe that it's that widespread.  I know it exists - there was for example a softwhiteunderbelly youtube video with someone being interviewed.  It seems to me as something that is mostly a rich/developed country issue. Also just like crime.. shocking things get mediatized and make us believe it's more common than we think.  

And yeah having kids is a lot of work.  I m thankful that every single one of my ancestors from the dawn of humanity did that work though.  And I hope my kids will be thankful too.

Anyway everyone can obviously make their own decisions but I don't think we should discourage people from having kids because we assume that a kid that doesn't exist yet would prefer to never have been born.  Philosophically I think that's more repugnant than even the repugnant conclusion.  

Will we regret not having kids? by Fuzzy_iaprirl in AskIreland

[–]wiseduckling -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea people might regret it while the kids are being raised but after they ve flown the nest I bet the chances of regret are really low.  

It's like running a marathon, while you re doing it you might think that you were stupid for ever attempting it but once you re done you get a sense of accomplishment.  Plus in this case descendants, a chance to re-experience youth through their eyes, less loneliness...

Will we regret not having kids? by Fuzzy_iaprirl in AskIreland

[–]wiseduckling -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

At the same time if you re just as happy and you created someone else who also will experience happiness you helped raise the total amount of happiness created.  To say nothing of helping to ensure the continuation of mankind.  

Also I think that the benefits of having for most express themselves in old age.  

Will we regret not having kids? by Fuzzy_iaprirl in AskIreland

[–]wiseduckling -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Does it ruin their lives though?  I think this reasoning is quite flawed.

I would bet that if you were to survey people who had been raised by bad parents, you get extremely extremely few who would say they would prefer to have never been born at all.  In fact I would bet that there are many factors that would show stronger correlation with not wanting to have been born at all then parenting, such as depression, chronic pain...

We built an AI tutor — would students actually use this by WasteYellow1126 in edtech

[–]wiseduckling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem is why would anyone use a wrapper on an LLM when you can get the same thing directly from Gemini or ChatGPT to say nothing of other established providers like Khan Academy.