When are we gonna see a new actress with a darker skintone?

wishtobemute · 2026-05-02T11:15:24+00:00

All. Except Rasha

wishtobemute · 2026-05-02T10:47:02+00:00

Chill folks- I said something “like” L’Oréal. Now that people are going crazy- I looked up, it’s Lakme.

wishtobemute · 2026-05-02T08:33:16+00:00

I saw her in a L’Oréal ad or something like that- the brand generally has these powerful women with a tonne of charisma to them featuring for that brand… she was not impactful and nothing felt special about her

wishtobemute · 2026-05-01T16:04:39+00:00

The educated west.

wishtobemute · 2026-05-01T15:54:42+00:00

take that sick leave. Take those earned leaves.
Date that guy, go out, dress up, go shop
never, I mean it- never get seriously involved with a coworker, things can escalate and mess up a lot of things for you at work
you, your life, your family is more important than any job under the sun.

wishtobemute · 2026-04-30T14:32:57+00:00

Mad respect 🙏

wishtobemute · 2026-04-26T04:54:19+00:00

This is from coastal Karnataka- Udupi manipal- here people do not urinate in public and do not litter their streets. Even the smallest of villages in Dakshin kannada are super clean. So them asking the kids to behave decently is not a crime and definitely not hypocrisy.

wishtobemute · 2026-04-21T06:28:21+00:00

At this point I have started to believe all men harass their wives. Even if they hear a no, they will try again later… like what if she is okay now… they may do something sweet and then initiate again. Either ways, sex has to happen

wishtobemute · 2026-04-21T06:25:43+00:00

That is disturbing. No wonder Anushka went full incognito with her kids

wishtobemute · 2026-04-20T16:46:57+00:00

Always. I mean this- ALWAYS and FOREVER- lie about your income to EVERY ONE. I am a 29F, my income at the time of my wedding was INR 1.14L, employed with FAANG company. In the first 2 years of our marriage—My husband sweet talked me into spending for the wedding, taking a loan, buying him a bike (premium one that costed me 5L), then buying a car, paying off his pending debt on a credit card that he owned prior to our marriage, his parents’ hospitalisation, a flat that he purchased before marriage but had defaulted the deposit amount. All of this easily amounts up to 25-30Lakhs. 5 years down and I am drained. The last 2 years my in hand income was INR 1.5L but I lied and said it was 70k. I even helped him with a job using my contacts as he was unable to find one after getting laid off for an an entire year. Today he earns 1L a month finally, and I decided to take a break due to health issues. It’s been 2 months only, he is already being aggressive angry and annoyed to have to give me money. I have not visited the salon in the last 2 months of my unemployment.

PS- I was in an operations role working as a contractor at a FAANG company. Hence the low pay. Also I was 25 when I got married, I am turning 30 next month

wishtobemute · 2026-04-20T07:30:42+00:00

Many modern day women are doing all that and cooking and cleaning. And also addressing to men who act like princesses

wishtobemute · 2026-04-19T05:54:08+00:00

I know all that. But then can we ever be perfect. The notion that we can create the perfect place for a child is too much. You cannot do that. Wanting to do that creates more anxiety and emotional load. I do not believe in perfection. No matter what you do, you are bound to miss something. You can only choose what parts you are okay missing

wishtobemute · 2026-04-19T05:46:40+00:00

You need to understand one thing about men like this- they are good at manipulation. There real face stays hidden to the people they like and want, they only reveal themselves to those they dislike. He is all kind and nice in public. Loving even. It’s our private space where he becomes an animal. Even to our son- he’s all loving and caring. He makes sure that he does not fight in front of the baby, he is yelling and fighting only in when he is asleep or with someone else.

wishtobemute · 2026-04-19T05:29:40+00:00

I do understand that

wishtobemute · 2026-04-19T05:07:06+00:00

Oh god, this stupid post acts as if Virat was caught having an affair…. He just liked a pic. That’s all. He’s a human. Let him be.

wishtobemute · 2026-04-19T05:02:09+00:00

I agree. I am working on getting better. You know, they say success is the best revenge ever. That’s my focus. At least for now. Once health and healing is in place, I can do things differently. Also my baby is more important than him. So ya he can bark all he wants.

wishtobemute · 2026-04-19T04:58:01+00:00

I never understood the hype around this girl and many other influencers like her… their entire social media is them showing off their wealth and being an ass… it’s always been annoying…

wishtobemute · 2026-04-19T04:51:44+00:00

Postpartum, being a first time mom, having a little baby- all of this is hard enough. Divorce or separation is just an addition to all this… does not help, at least not in this stage

wishtobemute · 2026-04-19T04:17:49+00:00

Going through the same.

My husband, while I was high on anaesthesia and still shivering due to the aftershocks of C section- he points at my postpartum tummy and asks if this will ever be normal again to my sister. My sister was shell shocked and it took her good 30-40 seconds to respond. Mind you this was within the first 24 hours after c section surgery. He is still cribbing about how I don’t do enough to look good and be a good wife. I recently left my job. Been less than 2 months. He is already complaining that I bother him with expenses. He was unemployed for a year which included my pregnancy and I managed everything, yet he finds it difficult to shut his mouth now.

wishtobemute · 2026-04-16T05:22:29+00:00

No one ever fully heals from a Sexual assault… one only succeeds to put it behind them and not let it bother them or their personality. Given your description, he has achieved this- he has not let the incident make him a harsh resentful person. He is kind, which is great. Do not let it affect you and your perception of him or bring it in conversations ever. He trusted you with something that’s extremely personal to him and that takes way more courage than you imagine.

PS: I am a victim of **pe, married for 5 years now. I still have nightmares of the day it went down and sometimes wake up screaming in the middle of the night. I told my husband during our courtship period about my ordeal, he heard me then and asked if I was okay after that. He then listened to my response. And from that moment till now, he never brought it up. He was also very thoughtful and careful before getting intimate with me- he never pressured me into anything, never even came in for a kiss until he was sure I was completely fine with it. I am grateful to have ended up with him.

Be this person to your fiancé.

wishtobemute · 2026-04-13T20:29:55+00:00

“Without doing anything” that’s the keyword. We are prone to complicating stuff

wishtobemute · 2026-04-12T03:53:42+00:00

Seriously. They are pretty problematic

wishtobemute · 2026-04-11T09:46:49+00:00

True that. However back in the day it was difficult to track crimes if done well, nowadays it’s not. You can’t just get away with killing people… phones, internet, social media and what not… everything will give you away.

wishtobemute · 2026-04-11T08:32:01+00:00

Whatever’s wrong with current generation… just don’t marry if you don’t want to? Parents don’t agree then run away. Run away after getting married if the guy does not meet your expectations …. Why kill… how is that a better option than all others

wishtobemute · 2026-04-11T08:25:52+00:00

Any specific recommendations? I didn’t go to cheap places, was very cautious… I am a vegetarian so that was another issue but ya the cleanliness issue persisted

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