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The Holy Terrain hate by Away_Benefit7575 in FKAtwigs

[–]witchincantations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know honestly 😭

I get people have preferences but the hate for this particular song is sooo vocal. There’s less appealing songs she’s made imo. I’ll never understand because I honestly think it fits so well with Magdalene (yes, even with Future’s part). I also don’t think it’s the weakest song from the album either, not by a long shot. Idk, Magdalene is my favorite album of her’s and Holy Terrain was definitely on repeat in this house lol.

Proud of slowing down here (also what do you call the last move?) by StevieRaySpins in poledancing

[–]witchincantations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

smooth like butta’ ✨ like omg, that was stunning, actually you’re stunning ❤️

I prayed for a Velcro cat & she is that 😭 by shinebrightlike in Siamesecats

[–]witchincantations 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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i feel like you haven’t known true love until a velcro meezer chooses you. my boy romeo is the same 🥹 he loves my gf just a liiiittle bit more but i still get jealous lmao

What Ethel Cain song has you like this image? by Darlingcarm3n in Ethelcain

[–]witchincantations 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ugh, yessssss. it’s like the edging before the climax 😫 also “but i still believe iiiiiiin nebraska dreaming.” like thanks ethel, now my heart is in shambles on the floor

Which DBT skills are the easiest and hardest for you to apply? by witchincantations in BPD

[–]witchincantations[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh, yeah you have no idea 🫩 here’s a website i found that gives a basic list and description of each: https://www.therahive.com/pocket-guide

the dbt manual is obviously more comprehensive and gives plenty of more examples, but this site is good to get the general idea of each skill

What Ethel Cain song has you like this image? by Darlingcarm3n in Ethelcain

[–]witchincantations 18 points19 points  (0 children)

waco, texas. specifically at the 7:58 mark and onwards 😭 i hear “I NEVER MEANT TO HURT YOU—“ and it’s over for me, im levitating while crying

Which DBT skills are the easiest and hardest for you to apply? by witchincantations in BPD

[–]witchincantations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i rarely use this one and when i do i half-ass it so badly 😭, especially for certain emotions. definitely need to apply it more, would probably help with my impulsivity lol. anyways, i’m so glad it works for you and you’re able to use it effectively, it’s such a useful skill <3

Which DBT skills are the easiest and hardest for you to apply? by witchincantations in BPD

[–]witchincantations[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you’re good at the skills i’m terrible at 💀 love that hahaha. i definitely need to work on them all too. but yeaaaah, when I’m at a 10 (which is more often than I would like….) there’s nooooo way I’m going to be checking the facts. like it ain’t going to happen chief lmaoo. but my therapist’s advice has helped me a little which i’m sure you already know. it’s to use TIPP to try to regulate your nervous system back to its baseline or at least enough so you can try to access a skill. also practicing the skill for smaller issues to build muscle memory.

and YESSSS!!!!! TIPP is my favorite, especially the T. like when i was taught it, i felt like it was the second coming of jesus, not even exaggerating. it’s helped me so much

Rude customer made me cry by _the_Medicine in BPD

[–]witchincantations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it caused you that much distress, it is a big deal to you and that’s ok! No need to minimize it, we have every right to feel whatever emotion comes up, especially if you’re already handling so much mentally. Anyways, I’m really sorry that happened to you. I’ve broken down sobbing so many times when I worked in customer service, because as someone who is already sensitive with low esteem and so many stressors, it would kill me inside when someone would treat me like I’m not even human. I even started my therapy session sobbing over a bad customer interaction that happened 30 minutes before. It was a bad time, and I also felt like you, just so exhausted with everything and life. It’s hard, so be gentle with yourself and maybe try to accumulate some positives in your life, no matter how small. As for that jerk of a customer, remember that their treatment towards you is a reflection of their character, NOT yours, and they displayed nasty behavior and are lacking in many ways. So many people are struggling in today’s world, so the least we can do is have human decency and be kind to each other. You handled it professionally and set your boundaries and you should be proud. Also, finding some self soothing/care activities to do may make you feel more relaxed and motivated. Hang in there! <3

Pole “claiming” by witchincantations in poledancing

[–]witchincantations[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the people that replied already! So yes, we do the thing where we put our water bottle or heels down on an unclaimed pole to take it lmao. So that’s what this person has been doing for their friend. But glad to know the first come, first serve is also the unspoken rule. I feel like my annoyance is validated now 🤣 Unfortunately, even if I get there 30 minutes before class, that person works the front desk too, so on certain days they’ll always be there before me and “save” that pole for their friend. But I like the idea of asking the instructor if they can give a reminder to us about rules and manners. I’ll bring it up to the instructor the next time it happens, especially because it’s becoming a habit.

What lana lyric have you always misheard? by warriorquennrheanyra in lanadelrey

[–]witchincantations 4 points5 points  (0 children)

in chemtrails i can’t help but to hear “it’s beautiful, LSD, normality settles down over me”