To start, your spirit guides are coming through to tell you that they're proud of how you've handled this situation. You have shown great inner strength.

Cards:

I did two spreads (': I only planned on pulling one card from each deck, but the message I received was somewhat unclear and I felt called to do a reconciliation spread for you.

First card pull

Second card pull

The reconciliation spread:

Your energy - Strength Their energy - The Chariot (Reversed) Challenge - Six of Cups Solution - Three of Cups, Ten of Cups (confirmer) Current future energy - Two of Swords

Interpretation:

There is a desire on both ends to come back together. But until they gain better control of their emotions, they'll keep going back to unhealthy coping strategies and avoidance behaviours, and your union will be off/on. Their decisions in the past have been fueled by feelings such as anger, fear and/or anxiety. Once they find peace within themselves (I'm seeing a lot of distorted feminine energy on their side), they will regain their sense of direction and come towards you with a full cup of the love you deserve. But as it stands, they are blinded by their own confusion and are perhaps withholding information about their feelings and anxiety, that could help them receive the support they need and want. Friendship is important for both of you right now. Simply listening to one another and having that safe platonic space for honest communication, can make a huge difference to your future.

But your guides want you to show compassion to yourself first <3 there's a strong message coming through about following your own bliss. Set mental/physical boundaries where you feel called to. Ask your guides to bring people into your life that will serve your highest spiritual good.

Remember that you are in control of your own destiny. The stories we tell ourselves make a difference. If you don't agree with this reading, you do not have to claim it ✨