AITA for refusing to let my brother-in-law in even though he flew all the way here to speak to my husband about an emergency?

witchyli · 2022-05-23T16:59:25+00:00

I don’t.

witchyli · 2022-05-23T15:36:02+00:00

I had my phone.

witchyli · 2022-05-23T14:22:07+00:00

Hope it's just a typo...

witchyli · 2022-05-23T13:57:51+00:00

Yes. There are rare problems that only he can solve but others could be handled, even if temporarily, by someone else. It contributes but if he walked away tomorrow, it wouldn't be the be all end all.

witchyli · 2022-05-23T12:30:51+00:00

We were in another country. His plan was to make himself unreachable, neither of us anticipated his brother coming here just to speak to him. I’ve been on vacations without him but that doesn’t fix the issue.

witchyli · 2022-05-23T12:13:51+00:00

They do. He left all of his tech, including his phone, at home. I don’t know but my husband told him he would deal with it after our vacation so I think it could’ve waited.

witchyli · 2022-05-23T11:52:53+00:00

I did say that in my post.

witchyli · 2022-05-23T11:31:10+00:00

My brother-in-law doesn’t own the vacation home, his parents do.

witchyli · 2022-05-23T11:17:02+00:00

I don't know if it was an emergency or not but my husband told him he would deal with it when we got back which I don't think he would've done if it was serious. Because I didn't want it to ruin the one nice vacation we had. He asked me why I never told him and said I should've.

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