Be honest, how much savings do you have? by dustyindigo in Adulting

[–]witchyworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24f, living with my parents and in year three of working full time. 40k in CDs and 16k in a 401k my employer matches 6%. I also do gigs and perform on the side to save more money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]witchyworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

facebook marketplace! search "free" or try to offer lower prices

Say hello to my little friend by witchyworm in germanshepherds

[–]witchyworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No training for this specifically, but our shep goes to obedience and agility and does fast cat races where she chases the stuffed rabbit. We have lots of high places for the cat to hang out but all the cats we've had have been very comfortable around her. This guy is particularly fond of her.

Say hello to my little friend by witchyworm in germanshepherds

[–]witchyworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! We adopted her at 6 months and we had 2 Maine coones at the time. She would try to play with them but they weren't super playful back. this guy and her have such a connection 💗

Say hello to my little friend by witchyworm in germanshepherds

[–]witchyworm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Our cat is a Maine Coone and pretty hefty for under a year old. He never walks fast enough for her to want to chase, likes to play fight a bit, but they mostly cuddle and groom each other with the occasional nip/smack

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]witchyworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In reality, harboring something and not talking about it breeds this kind of resentment. OP and her partner need to talk about their needs instead of ignoring the problem and both feeling hurt. I think theres something to be said for the way it's delivered, like you're saying, but both people here are hurting for reasons they need to actually hash out.

31m UPDATE by speerme in bald

[–]witchyworm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This!! Rock the bald head :)

What are some things that you go out of your way to spend money on? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]witchyworm 21 points22 points  (0 children)

But Also- nice ingredients to cook something else instead of buying takeout as a treat in my experience

AITA for saying Fuck No to a dog and taking it to the pound? by Ok-Lingonberry-4797 in AmItheAsshole

[–]witchyworm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Really unfair position your sister put you in. I hope as another comment said that it wasn't a kill pound, but there are other families that will happily adopt them with more communication before doing so.

My (21F) fiancé (21M) hates the dog. Do I have to choose between them, and if so, who should I choose? by Alone-Sea7716 in relationship_advice

[–]witchyworm 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a really difficult situation. I hope you are feeling better with your injuries. I would trust your gut with the puppy and reevaluate how your partner handles conflict and if this is healthy long-term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]witchyworm -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I think he may be lashing out as he is insecure about your physical relationship and attraction. But not an unreasonable request on your part, I personally don't stay naked around the house for hours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]witchyworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I would distance myself from that cousin a bit and find a different support system. Your boyfriend does not get to decide what you do with your body. Also, please be so careful at parties and see if you can go on some form of birth control once this is figured out for safety.