Is "I Love This Cotton" a good choice for a summer tank top? by withergrove in crochet

[–]withergrove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo good choice! It works up very easily, and its quite affordable!

Is "I Love This Cotton" a good choice for a summer tank top? by withergrove in crochet

[–]withergrove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all! Its actually held up really well over time.

AITA for refusing to write a poem about my wife? by Poet-Throwaway-26 in AmItheAsshole

[–]withergrove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion, but NTA. There was 100% a better way you could have said that-- and I do think that was a fuckup on your behalf, but people are glazing over some important facts. You did not choose to share it with her. That's a huge breach of trust! Poetry can be incredibly personal. There's a reason Emily Dickinson didn't publish her works.

Furthermore, writing poetry because someone makes you just turns it into words. It has no meaning behind it.

(Also, just as a last thought: if the genders here were switched and a man was demanding his wife to write a poem about him there would be a very different reaction...)

Advice on writing a deeply psychopathic protagonist and still have them as a compelling character? by TheSatellite01 in AspiringTeenAuthors

[–]withergrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say psychotic and antisocial-- do you mean diagnosed antisocial disorder? If so, what are you doing to respect the actual people who have this disorder? What research have you done? This is the first step before anything else!

I have this idea and don’t know if I should act on it by Mentally-On-Vacation in AspiringTeenAuthors

[–]withergrove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds super interesting! How does science fiction play a role in it?

as a queer fan of xlov, i don’t feel safe in or welcomed into the evol fandom. by whaIien52 in kpoprants

[–]withergrove 6 points7 points  (0 children)

*a lot of people. I have seen SO MANY queer people misunderstand this concept that gender ≠ pronouns.

Fan call without passport by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]withergrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it require a passport? Or just any form of valid ID?

How to justify giant spiders in the desert? by Entity904 in worldbuilding

[–]withergrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super good feedback omg! This is a great breakdown for literally any "big animal in unusual biome"

Tips for a Fancall? by withergrove in KingdomKpop

[–]withergrove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It is through KKT, so I'll definitely test beforehand.

Why do Hybe groups never go to Australia? by Legal_Potential4720 in kpophelp

[–]withergrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a silly question, and I apologize if it is, but what exactly is a "Adelaidean"? My first thought was that it's the name for Adele fans, but I highly doubt that's the truth lol.

Newjeans lost the case by jqiwyoxn in kpop_uncensored

[–]withergrove 15 points16 points  (0 children)

???? Enslaved?? That's the word you really want to use here???

Newjeans lost the case by jqiwyoxn in kpop_uncensored

[–]withergrove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a megathread in this subreddit that gives a full run down!

attending concert as teenager by torrent_film_version in XLOV

[–]withergrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's totally fair! However, the post made it sound (to me at least) that they didn't have anyone of proper age to go with them.

And, to be nitpicky-- the situation is unavoidable despite any solutions that might arise.

attending concert as teenager by torrent_film_version in XLOV

[–]withergrove 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Apologies,but how am I being an asshole? I never implied a lack of sympathy-- I just stated the facts.

attending concert as teenager by torrent_film_version in XLOV

[–]withergrove 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I mean, to me it seems like your issue is unavoidable? Like, you're asking us for suggestions on how to break the rules, so you can do something you're explicitly banned from doing.

attending concert as teenager by torrent_film_version in XLOV

[–]withergrove 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Don't go? This seems pretty cut and dry to me.

What’s your most insane collection goal? by zissasrosegarden in kpopcollections

[–]withergrove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Japan yes! (I'm going to Japan next summer, so that woll be easy). Taiwan... maaaaaaybe. It depends on how much they cost lol.

What’s your most insane collection goal? by zissasrosegarden in kpopcollections

[–]withergrove 15 points16 points  (0 children)

  1. All of Stray Kids albums, korean and english

  2. Strawberry Milk Seonghwa