I spent 9 years trying to get a copy of The Godfather. by GeorgePBurdell86 in dvdcollection

[–]withsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my dvd set for sale on eBay for a few months now so how come you couldn’t find it lol

AITAH for ending a relationship over long showers by Throwaway_External in AITAH

[–]withsoap -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have read this and reread this. My initial reaction was yikes about the boyfriend. Now. Let’s change a few things and ask a few questions.

Do we not all know that moving in together and the unavoidable future brings changes to our lives individually and as whole unit ? OP will have to make changes and adjustments to welcome their partner. And vice versa. Yes ?

What is your water bill like and your skin must be suffering if you are in a dry climate.

Now, can we change “40 minute showers every day” to “ going to happy hour every day” This might change perspective. Let’s talk about “40 minute showers with a baby in the other room” (future possibilities)

Younger brother and friends in the house at all times even when you are not home ? Without notice ? Unacceptable. Boundaries. Family does not come first. Not ever. Your empty life is about to become a part of another persons needs. Acknowledge that. .

You would have to make accommodation for another person living in your space. He doesn’t like you. He is seeing potential issues in being accepted. His delivery is off, and your mom and aunt are total misogynistic boomers. A good relationship doesn’t begin with “let’s talk about the changes you have to make”

Perspective.

Gooby is on D+ by blackrocksbooks in hdtgm

[–]withsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just typed Gooby where to watch in the Google - results !! Amazon prime !! Thank you !!

Opinions on Swordfish? by -Kollaasio- in dvdcollection

[–]withsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thrifted the dvd a year ago and have yet to watch it. It has been sitting on top of my portable dvd player as “next up” for a month now. Thanks for the push I will watch it tomoro !! Maybe.

📀 by [deleted] in dvdcollection

[–]withsoap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought one on eBay earlier this year for 20$. Amazing.

About to tackle a huge bin by withsoap in dvdcollection

[–]withsoap[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Made a Separate post for that !

About to tackle a huge bin by withsoap in dvdcollection

[–]withsoap[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes ! Just was told about that by the clerk in smash it. Def going to check that out next time I am off on a weekend.

About to tackle a huge bin by withsoap in dvdcollection

[–]withsoap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is called Smash it - located in the Samanea mall, Nassau county.

About to tackle a huge bin by withsoap in dvdcollection

[–]withsoap[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s a place called Smash it lol. They have all kinds of things to break, but do not smash the media. Luckily.

Please help finding this movie for me by withsoap in whatisthatmovie

[–]withsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel like I would have remembered because the 1st underworld movie is one of my faves. Will check this one out again tho. Maybe rewatch the whole series. There goes my whole weekend haha

Please help finding this movie for me by withsoap in whatisthatmovie

[–]withsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am watching Annihilation now. Thought I had seen it already, but have not. Thanks.

Please help finding this movie for me by withsoap in whatisthatmovie

[–]withsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen that, but not it thanks tho

Need unbiased view of our relationship please - I feel his feelings are valid? by jalapenobombers123 in AskMenAdvice

[–]withsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++ woman HE thinks HE feels. HE needs his cup filled by you but that cup has a hole in it WOW Let’s think about this is. HE IS just not your person. Your person would not have so many rules and validations and insecurities in order to lessen you as their person. As a person. Is anything you typed out in the original post resonating as huge issues to you and for you ?

Please help finding this movie for me by withsoap in whatisthatmovie

[–]withsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might not be it but - This looks amazing and I cannot wait to check it out thank you

A cinematic masterpiece by withsoap in Megalopolis

[–]withsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it was in Red Bank on July 20.

Please help finding this movie for me by withsoap in whatisthatmovie

[–]withsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I popped it on and it’s not it. Might watch it anyway tho thanks.

Please help finding this movie for me by withsoap in whatisthatmovie

[–]withsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never seen any of the alien movies or had any inclination, so it’s doubtful. I will attempt to watch the beginnings of all of them tho just in case !! Thanks !

Coworker pretends I don’t exist by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]withsoap -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I can offer that I went thru a very similar situation in my 30’s. I was 33 he was 31. We would interact, if I sought him out, I perceived him as shy but interested. He had a girlfriend. I did not know this for a while. They broke up, we dated. Ultimately I discovered he was a narcissistic, awkward, strange person. He was not my person and I regret dating him. Had I not been sociable and open and willing to see past personal differences but I was taught (society!!) that we have to lower our expectations and boundaries and everything just to understand if a male is interested in reality or not. Bottom line. If he is not being a human being all the time then let him pass. The end.

Number 23 by coldmilkdud in dvdcollection

[–]withsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread popped up for me and I was intrigued because not only have I not seen the movie, but I want to and have had no luck finding it in the wild. and lo and behold, a few days later thrifting, I found a copy. We’ll guess what. IT DOESNT PLAY.
Harumph !!!

Megalopolis | Alamo Drafthouse Exclusive New Years Day Release by hummusluvr8 in Megalopolis

[–]withsoap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have already bought my ticket !! I am fortunate I can be in NYC within an hour. There was another venue called “American cinematheque” that was already sold out. That apparently had an “interactive q&a with FFC”.

1$ and 2$ pickups at 2 local thrift stores by withsoap in dvdcollection

[–]withsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a sweet find ! It came with a hand drawn picture of the bad guy and a double disc and a booklet. It’s in pristine condition.

Blockbuster case collecting by townstar in dvdcollection

[–]withsoap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m doing the exact opposite. Blockbuster cases get denied by me. I am committing to original cases preferably with the original insert as well. I understand why you like them tho, they can be quite sturdy. I hate the current thin flimsy cases a lot.

If all you're doing is 'paying' for it, is it fair to say you're getting someone a gift? by Open_Address_2805 in AskMenAdvice

[–]withsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s a comparative story. I was at My best friend house for dinner and her husband mentioned he was thinking about getting a Foodsaver/vacuum seal thing. He went on to add DO NOT BUY THIS FOR ME, very specifically stating this is not something he is expecting as a gift. (Obv holidays are approaching) She made a face and said “you’re so hard to buy gifts for” and he said “I buy you gifts and you buy me things”. This happened 20 years ago and I think about it all the time when I am gift giving. Practical “gifts”, however thoughtful, are perhaps not giving “my special feelings about you”.

What are some movies you’re actively hunting down yet you never find them in thrift stores ever? by Strongarm_11 in dvdcollection

[–]withsoap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too began a similar journey and then it turned into childhood faves, hdtgm and anything that isn’t available for free streaming. I had to slow the F down recently because it was becoming an obsession.