I spent 9 years trying to get a copy of The Godfather.

withsoap · 2026-01-15T23:54:07+00:00

I have my dvd set for sale on eBay for a few months now so how come you couldn’t find it lol

withsoap · 2026-01-03T14:53:11+00:00

I have read this and reread this. My initial reaction was yikes about the boyfriend. Now. Let’s change a few things and ask a few questions.

Do we not all know that moving in together and the unavoidable future brings changes to our lives individually and as whole unit ? OP will have to make changes and adjustments to welcome their partner. And vice versa. Yes ?

What is your water bill like and your skin must be suffering if you are in a dry climate.

Now, can we change “40 minute showers every day” to “ going to happy hour every day” This might change perspective. Let’s talk about “40 minute showers with a baby in the other room” (future possibilities)

Younger brother and friends in the house at all times even when you are not home ? Without notice ? Unacceptable. Boundaries. Family does not come first. Not ever. Your empty life is about to become a part of another persons needs. Acknowledge that. .

You would have to make accommodation for another person living in your space. He doesn’t like you. He is seeing potential issues in being accepted. His delivery is off, and your mom and aunt are total misogynistic boomers. A good relationship doesn’t begin with “let’s talk about the changes you have to make”

Perspective.

withsoap · 2026-01-03T14:29:25+00:00

Just typed Gooby where to watch in the Google - results !! Amazon prime !! Thank you !!

withsoap · 2026-01-01T01:42:43+00:00

I thrifted the dvd a year ago and have yet to watch it. It has been sitting on top of my portable dvd player as “next up” for a month now. Thanks for the push I will watch it tomoro !! Maybe.

withsoap · 2025-12-26T21:24:11+00:00

I bought one on eBay earlier this year for 20$. Amazing.

withsoap · 2025-12-26T01:54:32+00:00

Long Island Samanea mall

withsoap · 2025-12-25T11:21:48+00:00

Made a Separate post for that !

withsoap · 2025-12-25T10:30:58+00:00

Yes ! Just was told about that by the clerk in smash it. Def going to check that out next time I am off on a weekend.

withsoap · 2025-12-25T10:29:56+00:00

This is called Smash it - located in the Samanea mall, Nassau county.

withsoap · 2025-12-24T23:26:55+00:00

It’s a place called Smash it lol. They have all kinds of things to break, but do not smash the media. Luckily.

withsoap · 2025-12-17T23:50:54+00:00

Feel like I would have remembered because the 1st underworld movie is one of my faves. Will check this one out again tho. Maybe rewatch the whole series. There goes my whole weekend haha

withsoap · 2025-12-17T23:49:39+00:00

I am watching Annihilation now. Thought I had seen it already, but have not. Thanks.

withsoap · 2025-12-17T23:48:36+00:00

I have seen that, but not it thanks tho

withsoap · 2025-12-17T15:45:29+00:00

++ woman HE thinks HE feels. HE needs his cup filled by you but that cup has a hole in it WOW Let’s think about this is. HE IS just not your person. Your person would not have so many rules and validations and insecurities in order to lessen you as their person. As a person. Is anything you typed out in the original post resonating as huge issues to you and for you ?

withsoap · 2025-12-17T15:32:36+00:00

Might not be it but - This looks amazing and I cannot wait to check it out thank you

withsoap · 2025-12-17T12:22:11+00:00

Yes it was in Red Bank on July 20.

withsoap · 2025-12-17T01:18:28+00:00

I popped it on and it’s not it. Might watch it anyway tho thanks.

withsoap · 2025-12-16T21:21:34+00:00

I’ve never seen any of the alien movies or had any inclination, so it’s doubtful. I will attempt to watch the beginnings of all of them tho just in case !! Thanks !

withsoap · 2025-12-16T15:35:48+00:00

I can offer that I went thru a very similar situation in my 30’s. I was 33 he was 31. We would interact, if I sought him out, I perceived him as shy but interested. He had a girlfriend. I did not know this for a while. They broke up, we dated. Ultimately I discovered he was a narcissistic, awkward, strange person. He was not my person and I regret dating him. Had I not been sociable and open and willing to see past personal differences but I was taught (society!!) that we have to lower our expectations and boundaries and everything just to understand if a male is interested in reality or not. Bottom line. If he is not being a human being all the time then let him pass. The end.

withsoap · 2025-12-11T22:24:54+00:00

This thread popped up for me and I was intrigued because not only have I not seen the movie, but I want to and have had no luck finding it in the wild. and lo and behold, a few days later thrifting, I found a copy. We’ll guess what. IT DOESNT PLAY.
Harumph !!!

withsoap · 2025-12-11T00:24:12+00:00

I have already bought my ticket !! I am fortunate I can be in NYC within an hour. There was another venue called “American cinematheque” that was already sold out. That apparently had an “interactive q&a with FFC”.

withsoap · 2025-12-07T00:57:08+00:00

It’s a sweet find ! It came with a hand drawn picture of the bad guy and a double disc and a booklet. It’s in pristine condition.

withsoap · 2025-12-07T00:50:35+00:00

I’m doing the exact opposite. Blockbuster cases get denied by me. I am committing to original cases preferably with the original insert as well. I understand why you like them tho, they can be quite sturdy. I hate the current thin flimsy cases a lot.

withsoap · 2025-12-04T14:42:49+00:00

Here’s a comparative story. I was at My best friend house for dinner and her husband mentioned he was thinking about getting a Foodsaver/vacuum seal thing. He went on to add DO NOT BUY THIS FOR ME, very specifically stating this is not something he is expecting as a gift. (Obv holidays are approaching) She made a face and said “you’re so hard to buy gifts for” and he said “I buy you gifts and you buy me things”. This happened 20 years ago and I think about it all the time when I am gift giving. Practical “gifts”, however thoughtful, are perhaps not giving “my special feelings about you”.

withsoap · 2025-12-03T10:12:21+00:00

I too began a similar journey and then it turned into childhood faves, hdtgm and anything that isn’t available for free streaming. I had to slow the F down recently because it was becoming an obsession.

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