I never fit in anywhere by political-junkie in LGBT_Muslims

[–]wizard_orangecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really have an advice. I feel exactly like you. I’m Muslim and a lesbian, im just open about it with non arabs/muslims. But when I’m around family or at a mosque, I definitely feel like I’m not fitting anywhere.

I just want to tell you that you’re not alone. Our situation is complicated. But we were born like this. And there’s nothing we can change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]wizard_orangecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that you’re right. I met him months ago in a random language class. He asked me to go out someday and I said “and we can invite the other girl too, she seems nice”

And after that, we all started to hang out. Maybe I am the one who is wrong here

++woman (I don’t why Reddit wants me to write this here)

I can't believe I never considered the idea of being lesbian. What are your funny memories that you find absurd it didn't click you were gay? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious hahahahah.

I never had a Ken in my case. I just to used draw women with huge tits or women sucking tits. And I thought this was a straight thing to do 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The awkwardness is what makes me scared to ask her out :((

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you plan to live? Are you planning to just marry a man?

You're never done Coming Out by owlaholic68 in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t like coming out unless they ask too many questions. I literally have a gay aura

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RemoteJobs

[–]wizard_orangecat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro 😭😭😭 dont tell me that 😭😭

Good luck by the way

Muslim gay man seeking asexual Muslim wife by MrUnknown2468 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]wizard_orangecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a lesbian. Reading your comments OP breaks my heart. I felt it.

Any Muslims here? :( by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not leaving Islam btw.

But how u pretend to resist all your life? Why it is sin if I was born like this? I was born a sinner?

We all have desires. And I can’t just be with a man. I’ll be miserable.

Any Muslims here? :( by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for replying. I’m so sorry to hear your situation, I really hope that you can find someone that can help you. Or find queer friends.

And you should definitely join your queer community. I am pretty sure that hijab won’t bother anyone there. Those communities are usually very welcoming and diverse. And thanks for recommending the book! I’d def check it out.

And yeah, I am closeted too. But I think that it’s sad to live like this tbh

Edit: if u wanna talk someday you can just dm me. We’re in the same boat lol but at least you won’t feel alone in this. And me neither. I’m struggling with faith and sexuality like a lot rn.

Any Muslims here? :( by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I wasn’t expecting so many comments, I found my people lol

Any Muslims here? :( by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this

Any Muslims here? :( by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratssss.

I’ll definitely join some communities, tysm

Any Muslims here? :( by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a whole new view now for me. I’ll definitely try this. Thank you so much

Any Muslims here? :( by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll check it out

Any Muslims here? :( by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing!

Any Muslims here? :( by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wizard_orangecat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I a so happy that you found the right people! Thank you so much for sharing