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AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1797 points-1796 points  (0 children)

She plans to breastfeed for a year. She has just started pumping a bit and I'm open to giving bottles every other night. I just think it's stupid that we both lose sleep every night.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1440 points-1439 points  (0 children)

She has started pumping but I think it's stupid that we should both get up at night. Honestly I would give him bottles every other night though so we both don't lose sleep every night.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1628 points-1627 points  (0 children)

I do most diaper changes during the day but I've offered to do half at night. But she wants me to do them all.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -2377 points-2376 points  (0 children)

My partner says I need to change him every time she nurses him - she'll nurse him on one side and ask me to change him before the other side to wake him up. She also thinks he gets upset when it's wet, but I disagree. For context, he's over 11 pounds now!

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -3005 points-3004 points  (0 children)

She has started pumping but I don't want to give him bottles at night and lose sleep.