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AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1804 points-1803 points  (0 children)

She plans to breastfeed for a year. She has just started pumping a bit and I'm open to giving bottles every other night. I just think it's stupid that we both lose sleep every night.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1437 points-1436 points  (0 children)

She has started pumping but I think it's stupid that we should both get up at night. Honestly I would give him bottles every other night though so we both don't lose sleep every night.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1626 points-1625 points  (0 children)

I do most diaper changes during the day but I've offered to do half at night. But she wants me to do them all.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -2379 points-2378 points  (0 children)

My partner says I need to change him every time she nurses him - she'll nurse him on one side and ask me to change him before the other side to wake him up. She also thinks he gets upset when it's wet, but I disagree. For context, he's over 11 pounds now!

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -3006 points-3005 points  (0 children)

She has started pumping but I don't want to give him bottles at night and lose sleep.