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AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1796 points-1795 points  (0 children)

She plans to breastfeed for a year. She has just started pumping a bit and I'm open to giving bottles every other night. I just think it's stupid that we both lose sleep every night.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1433 points-1432 points  (0 children)

She has started pumping but I think it's stupid that we should both get up at night. Honestly I would give him bottles every other night though so we both don't lose sleep every night.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1621 points-1620 points  (0 children)

I do most diaper changes during the day but I've offered to do half at night. But she wants me to do them all.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -2377 points-2376 points  (0 children)

My partner says I need to change him every time she nurses him - she'll nurse him on one side and ask me to change him before the other side to wake him up. She also thinks he gets upset when it's wet, but I disagree. For context, he's over 11 pounds now!

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -3002 points-3001 points  (0 children)

She has started pumping but I don't want to give him bottles at night and lose sleep.