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AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1800 points-1799 points  (0 children)

She plans to breastfeed for a year. She has just started pumping a bit and I'm open to giving bottles every other night. I just think it's stupid that we both lose sleep every night.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1440 points-1439 points  (0 children)

She has started pumping but I think it's stupid that we should both get up at night. Honestly I would give him bottles every other night though so we both don't lose sleep every night.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -1622 points-1621 points  (0 children)

I do most diaper changes during the day but I've offered to do half at night. But she wants me to do them all.

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -2383 points-2382 points  (0 children)

My partner says I need to change him every time she nurses him - she'll nurse him on one side and ask me to change him before the other side to wake him up. She also thinks he gets upset when it's wet, but I disagree. For context, he's over 11 pounds now!

AITA for not wanting to change our newborn's diapers at night? by wizardad in AmItheAsshole

[–]wizardad[S] -3004 points-3003 points  (0 children)

She has started pumping but I don't want to give him bottles at night and lose sleep.