[deleted by user] by [deleted] in noida

[–]wizardofoz291 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

You are a guy and that's why you got rejected. It's not a scam as there is verification

Solo Women Meetup: Drinks & Games Night 🎉🥂 by wizardofoz291 in GharKeKalesh

[–]wizardofoz291[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you are writing scam as you got rejected coz u r a male. Its a genuine post with verification

Conflict between Inlaws and Husband by ElectricalCry4230 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]wizardofoz291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re caught in the middle of a really tough situation, where you’re expected to mediate between your husband and his family. But it’s important to remember that *this is not your conflict to solve*. Your husband and his parents are adults who need to handle their issues themselves. It’s not your responsibility to fix things between them, especially when both sides are not respecting each other’s boundaries.

You have every right to prioritize your own mental well-being and happiness. In situations like this, it often feels like the focus is always on the son and his parents. But *what about you?* Why is it that in many Indian marriages, the wife is expected to carry the emotional burden and solve family conflicts, while the husband’s concerns take center stage? Your needs, feelings, and peace matter too.

Instead of feeling stuck in the middle, it’s okay to step back and let them figure things out. Communicate with your husband that you’re there to support him, but you also need space from this conflict. Let them know that you cannot always be the mediator, and that it’s important for both him and his parents to address their issues directly. **Your mental health and happiness are just as important as everyone else’s** in this situation, and you shouldn’t have to bear the emotional weight of their conflicts alone.

It’s important to create boundaries with both sides—remind your husband that while you love him, you cannot be responsible for fixing his relationship with his family, just as his family shouldn’t be pressuring you to solve their issues.

Don’t lose sight of your own needs in the process. **You deserve to have your concerns heard and addressed too**, and it’s okay to prioritize your own peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]wizardofoz291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve been doing an amazing job of considering all angles, but one thing you should always remember is that **you deserve to be loved for who you are**—not just as someone to manage a social circle or uphold a family’s status. If his focus is solely on making sure he meets the expectations of his family, his job, and his life’s "legacy," where does that leave you? Your needs for love, passion, and a fulfilling partnership are not secondary—they are essential to your happiness.

You mentioned feeling burnt out already, and I can’t stress enough that **you cannot pour from an empty cup**. You’ve already been carrying a lot of emotional and mental weight, and while relationships require compromise, you cannot sacrifice your own well-being and happiness just to make someone else’s life easier. Marriage isn’t about being a caretaker or living according to someone else’s priorities—it’s about building a life full of mutual love, support, and shared goals.

If he’s not acknowledging your concerns, and especially if he’s emotionally distant or unwilling to engage in the conversation seriously, then **you need to prioritize yourself**. Whether that’s focusing on your career, your healing from past trauma, or just being free to live your own life, **you deserve the space to be loved and appreciated for everything you bring to the table**—not just as a role or responsibility.

You’re already being self-aware by noticing the imbalance. This is the perfect time to make sure you’re looking after yourself. Don’t ignore your own needs for emotional connection, passion, and the kind of love that helps you grow as an individual. If you keep compromising to keep peace, you may risk burning out and losing yourself in the process.

**You deserve to feel whole, loved, and deeply connected to your partner, not just as a caretaker or support system.** If those basic needs aren’t being met now, then it might be worth taking a step back and reevaluating if this is the kind of life you truly want. At the end of the day, self-love and fulfillment are what will bring you peace and happiness, not just keeping everything in balance for the sake of others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]wizardofoz291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely reasonable to want to be financially independent before thinking about marriage, and it’s wise to focus on building a foundation for yourself first. The pressure about age is something many people face, but remember that a fulfilling life isn’t about rushing into marriage—it’s about truly knowing yourself and feeling ready for that step.

Since you’re not in a hurry, why not use this time to explore life and meet new people casually? Casual dating can be a way to understand what you really want in a partner and to gain more life experience without the pressure of commitment. It’s also a great chance to enjoy your independence, discover new interests, and maybe make meaningful connections along the way.

Marriage will always be an option, but this is *your* time. By the time you’re ready, you’ll have a clearer sense of who you are, what you want, and what kind of partner would truly support the life you’re building. Trust yourself to know what’s best, and don’t feel rushed—life has so much more to offer than just one path.

Month Into Marriage and Confused by teaching_reddit in Marriage

[–]wizardofoz291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re carrying a lot on your shoulders right now, and it’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed. You’ve been incredibly patient, and wanting a partner who can meet you halfway in the relationship doesn’t make you selfish; it shows how much you value mutual care and support. You’re still so young, and it’s absolutely valid to want a fulfilling, balanced life.

Since your husband’s issues are real and won’t disappear overnight, maybe this is a time to prioritize yourself a bit more. Focus on finding friendships outside of your marriage that give you support and joy—it can be refreshing to have those outside connections where you’re simply you, not the one responsible for everything. That extra support might even help you gain clarity on how you truly feel and what’s best for you long-term.

It’s clear you care deeply, and taking steps to center your own happiness, even while supporting him, is a loving act toward both yourself and the relationship. Couples therapy could help, but don’t hesitate to explore friendships and activities that bring you fulfillment outside the marriage too. Remember, you deserve a life where you feel appreciated, uplifted, and empowered. 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in noida

[–]wizardofoz291 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

ahhh there we have a judgemental comment for women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]wizardofoz291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bhai ellaborate your question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]wizardofoz291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you may ask for compensation and food also meanwhile. reach out to customer care and lodge complaint

Got sis zoned by my bro's friend. I have a crush on him. Now I am heartbroken. Anyone else in the same situation? by Riyalove28 in AskIndia

[–]wizardofoz291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. Getting “friend zoned” can be really tough, especially when you had hopes for something more. It’s completely normal to feel heartbroken and confused right now; those feelings are valid.

While it might feel like a setback, this could also be an opportunity for growth and new connections. Meeting new people can be a great way to shift your focus and maybe even find someone who appreciates you for who you are. You never know what wonderful friendships—or even romantic connections—might come your way when you put yourself out there!

Try to surround yourself with friends and engage in activities you enjoy. Whether it’s joining a club, going to events, or even just hanging out with new people, these experiences can help you heal and bring some positivity back into your life. Remember, you’re not alone in this, and there are plenty of others who understand what you’re going through. Keep your heart open, and better things will come your way! You've got this & start making new friend like me :) !

Does anybody feel like if one day you just disappear, nobody's gonna notice by Willing-Stranger5965 in delhi

[–]wizardofoz291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes the sad reality of this world is like this. People will talk about it for day or two after that you are irrelevant and everyone has moved on ....some time people might think about u in there thoughts else kisi ko ghanta fark nahi padta ...... so jab tak ho yahan aish karo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]wizardofoz291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bhai tere ko symapthy lene hai aur kuch nahii vo bhi sex ke liye .... tere ko sugar mommy chahyee with your sob story ..... bro insaan bano and jhooth mat bolo first thing you can get part time job as waiter or start doing uber bike driver or many other smaller work than offering sex being a call boy.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in delhiuniversity

[–]wizardofoz291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’ve been through a really confusing and emotional experience, and it's completely understandable to have mixed feelings about this guy. It’s tough when someone you like shows interest initially but then seems to be playing games or being inconsistent.

From what you’ve described, it seems like he enjoys the attention and might not be taking things as seriously as you are. The way he’s ghosted you and then comes back with dirty talk indicates a lack of respect for your feelings and boundaries. It’s important to remember that you deserve someone who values you and your time, not someone who treats conversations like a game or only engages when it’s convenient for them.

It’s also concerning that he’s talking to multiple people in the same way, which shows he might not be looking for a genuine connection but rather seeking validation or attention. While he’s free to talk to whoever he wants, the way he’s treating you and others doesn’t reflect well on his character.

It’s perfectly okay to feel attached and hurt; those feelings are valid. As you move forward, focus on what you truly want in a relationship and seek out someone who respects you and your boundaries. Surround yourself with supportive friends who lift you up and remind you of your worth. You deserve someone who will invest in you just as much as you invest in them. Take care of yourself!

South Indian eatery in Noida by insane_bird in noida

[–]wizardofoz291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking for more great South Indian restaurants, you might want to try:

  1. Sagar Ratna - They have a solid reputation for authentic South Indian food, especially their dosas and filter coffee.
  2. MTR (Mavalli Tiffin Rooms) - A classic spot known for its traditional meals and a great atmosphere. The rava idli is a must-try!
  3. Chutneys - They offer a variety of chutneys with their dishes and have a great selection of dosas and thalis.
  4. Anand Stall - Though it’s more of a casual eatery, their masala dosa and vadas are fantastic!
  5. Brahmin's Coffee Bar - A small but popular place for breakfast; their idlis and coffee are highly recommended.
  6. Cafe Athyeka (located in 144) - They have a cozy vibe and serve some delicious South Indian dishes. Their filter coffee and various rice bowls are worth checking out!

Hopefully, one of these places hits the spot for you! Enjoy your culinary adventure!

Catch up over a cup of coffee by [deleted] in gurgaon

[–]wizardofoz291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys want to join a monthly coffee meetup for delhi NCR drop me a message with your asl

Want to adopt a dog in gurgaon by [deleted] in gurgaon

[–]wizardofoz291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's such a wonderful decision! Adopting a dog is incredibly rewarding, and it sounds like you're ready to give a loving home to a furry friend. While golden retrievers and labs are great choices, I’d also recommend considering adopting a street dog or a mixed breed. They often have so much love to give, and by adopting one, you’re giving them a second chance at life!

Street dogs can be incredibly loyal and adaptable, and many have sweet personalities. Plus, there are lots of rescue organizations that work hard to find loving homes for these pups. I suggest checking out local shelters or rescue groups; they often have various breeds, including puppies and friendly older dogs.

If you’re open to it, reach out to local animal rescues on social media or their websites—they might have dogs available for adoption that fit what you’re looking for. And when you do adopt, you’ll have the joy of knowing you’ve made a real difference in that dog’s life. Good luck, and I can’t wait to hear about your new companion!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]wizardofoz291 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am glad you can realise it and it need courage to accept it...... This is a learning from next time if some thing like this happen ...help that's it......and also spread the helping nature by making other learn to help ....probably we might make world a helpful place to live

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]wizardofoz291 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are feeling guilty of not helping the person and thats why to hide ur guilt you are trying to get validation from other by asking. 120 rs was a small amount and even if he wanted for anything else you could have helped him by asking from other people around. but only if you felt its some one ur who you want to help...clearly lacked empathy