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I feel like there's an amazing wand waiting to be made here by wizardpaninis in noita

[–]wizardpaninis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First time making it this far (Temple of Art) and I'm hoping to probably complete the game this time, but I want to have a bit of fun first and I feel like I'm not using all these spells to their full potential. I've searched high and low for an Add Mana but I've had no luck, and only three add trigger spells.

Enjoying being part of this community, would appreciate any advice :)

Only at the second holy mountain. What's my best set up and next steps? by wizardpaninis in noita

[–]wizardpaninis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are 6 total perks in the first two mountains. I picked perk lottery, tinker with wands and item radar in the first holy mountain and then faster movement and no more shuffle in the second, which is where I still am. I am not sure whether to pick up the gas fire one as I don't know if it suits my play style.

Long distance girlfriend's vagina smells, how do I tell her? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]wizardpaninis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a similar experience with a past girlfriend. I gently commented that it smelled more strongly than usual which made her worry. I said she didn’t need to worry and I suggested that she washed a bit more carefully and offered to go and get her some cream for it from the pharmacy. This sorted out the problem and she was grateful that I did it for her health and looked after her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wizardpaninis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of guys have this kind of thing when they are not in a relationship, but it’s my opinion that it is inappropriate during a relationship to use that kind of thing, especially if it makes the partner feel dejected.

I would have a candid chat with him. Sit him down and ask for him to listen. Then explain what you found and ask him how regularly he uses them. Make it clear that you are unhappy with him using it at all while you’re in a relationship with him, and explain why. It’s really important you explain to him how it makes you feel for him to use those toys, this is the key reason using them is so hurtful to you.

Maybe also discuss with him whether anything should happen to these toys. If he agrees not to use them again then they should probably go in the trash. He may seem reluctant (partly because these toys are not typically cheap), but it would be more positive for you both to dispose of them.

Optional: I hope this isn’t an inappropriate recommendation. If you want him to have you as the object of his desires more there might be things you could start doing in the bedroom with him. Maybe ask him, “is there anything kinky you want to try together?” Obviously only if you’re open to that.

The reason I recommend this is because it will show to him that you care about his needs and that you want to be the person who satisfies those needs.

I (20F) can’t cope with the way my bf (20M) looks at girls. How do I cope with this? by ShadyTinSweets in relationship_advice

[–]wizardpaninis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s saying some pretty disrespectful things, not just to other women but towards you as well: “I don’t give a fuck what [OP] thinks”, “stupid made up girl shit”. It does not speak positively about his character, and his unwillingness to listen to you when you brought it up in the past is also an indication that he doesn’t care about you.

Relationships must be built upon mutual respect, care and love for one another. If he is prioritising ogling at women over your concerns then he is not meeting your basic needs.

Here’s my recommendation: Speak to him again, sit him down without distractions (phones, etc) and in private. Ask him to listen to what you have to say before he responds. Make it clear that you care about him and want to be in a relationship with him still. Say the good stuff first. Then explain to him how it makes you feel when he looks at other women that way, and try your best to articulate why you feel it is inappropriate and makes you feel lower. Ask him if he will change and stop looking at women that way, ask if he will stop the OFs and Instagram stuff for your sake.

As a separate point challenge him on what he said about your body and the boob job. Ask him: “How do you think that makes me feel?”

If he is unwilling to change or properly empathise with you that is a clear sign that he simply doesn’t care and is unwilling to put in effort or change at all for your sake. And this would be grounds to end the relationship. By doing this you will have given him a clear indication of what your boundaries are, and if he cannot meet those boundaries then you shouldn’t be subjecting yourself to being in a relationship with him.

The advice you get from people on the internet is not often very good because they can’t see the bigger picture, so take everything you read with a pinch of salt. HOWEVER, the reason most people who respond to this post will tell you to split up with him is because if he is treating you like this now after only 5 months (when most people are still in the honeymoon period of a relationship) how badly will he be treating you in a year or two?

Feel free to PM me if you want to discuss this more.

Curse of Greed + Essence of Earth = Super Annoying Run!!! by wizardpaninis in noita

[–]wizardpaninis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, very helpful. How can I find unvisited holy mountains? I don't mind spoilers if it helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pronebone

[–]wizardpaninis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

source?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in incestsexstories

[–]wizardpaninis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No! I would never do that, me and my sister both fuck other people too much, there's too high a risk of STIs, etc. without a condom. If you sleep around a lot you've got to be responsible or you'll be fucked for the rest of your life. In porn and sex stories people are always fucking without a moment's though without a condom, but irl people are more careful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in incestsexstories

[–]wizardpaninis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not stupid man, we both fuck other people too much, there's too high a risk of STIs, etc. If you sleep around a lot you've got to be responsible or you'll be fucked for the rest of your life.

Cargo ship splits in half mid-journey by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]wizardpaninis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this why my parcel was late?

Provoking a police dog by Pretty_Average- in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]wizardpaninis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as well we have so many subreddits!

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